Are only men bisexual?

Isn't it interesting that this thread seems to apply only to the husbands who are bi? You see a lot of posts about FF activity in almost all of the other threads. But, if it's two husbands playing or considering playing, it's banned to this thread.

Just a thought!

You are correct - same sex activities between men and between women have totally different reactions and levels of acceptability in both the vanilla and "open-minded" swingers worlds. People just want what they want. I've had gay sex and been on both top and bottom, oral and anal in couples swaps situations, so I've enjoyed it and open to it, but we do any gay thing less than 1% of the time, whereas the women always want one another. Why? It's just what we like.

ViSexual, I think you have been here long enough to remember when ANY mention of M/M activity on this board would bring a truckload of venom and vitriol. Now, there is still not equilibrium between FF and MM posts/activity/acceptance, but it's a damn site closer than it was a dozen to 14 years ago. That gap will probably continue to close for the foreseeable future.

Based on what I'm seeing around the groups my daughter runs with (mid 20's), it is just another thing with them.

I think the double standard about gay/lesbian sex has been around forever. And I don't think it's going away any time soon.

It may moderate a bit, but I don't ever see it achieving parity. But I've been wrong before, so who knows.

ViSexual, I think you have been here long enough to remember when ANY mention of M/M activity on this board would bring a truckload of venom and vitriol. Now, there is still not equilibrium between FF and MM posts/activity/acceptance, but it's a damn site closer than it was a dozen to 14 years ago. That gap will probably continue to close for the foreseeable future.

 

Based on what I'm seeing around the groups my daughter runs with (mid 20's), it is just another thing with them.

I think you have a great point. And, it's the younger generation that will, hopefully, correct a lot of the things our generation has messed up.

And, interesting that your daughter runs a swinger's site.

It is comical to a certain extent that the younger generation (mid 20's yo early 30') seems to accept MM play with an open mind. I've dated women in the mid to late 30's who were totally opposed to MM curiosity. They viewed it as unacceptable or thought that bi men were more prone to cheating. The stigma attached to curious men is disheartening. My experience has been that either the younger generation were accepting of it or the older generation consisting of single moms in the 40's. Anything in between was a hit or miss - usually a miss.

I've been going to Hedo2 for about 9 years now. At first, while it was accepted, even encouraged, between women, any thought of mm bisexuality was simply not accepted. A number of years ago our group crossed over with a group consisting of primarily gay black men (mostly Jamaican). You would have thought the world had come to an end from some of the old timer guests. The last couple of trips we've been,the same group has crossed over, and not only are they no longer looked at funny, but now some of the other male guests have been more open about their bisexuality. It hasn't become commonplace yet, but at least people aren't running and screaming, lol.