bizarre online encounters

we are new and u guys probably have better stories than us but here is something funny that happend to us.

So we joined kasidi.com and before we were at trueswingers (thats another great story for another time, ) and as new there we tried to be polite with everyone and try to make some online friends before go to a party bla bla u know

one way for that site to start a conversation is to thumb up a picture the users uploaded so we did that to couple people as other members did to our photos, now we are always polite and never leave comments like i want to fuck you or something like that

ok we talked to a lot people and we had an ok time but then for some reason my gf thumbed up a pic of a 50something couple cause as she said to me liked that at their age they still are active and feel sexy as we would like to be like that, no sexy coment no wink no nothing just a thumbs up for a photo she liked

mind u we are in our mid 20s

so i get an email some min later saying thnx for liking our photo and i respond no problem u guys look good.i thought i was polite but then another email comes and reads as follows and old lol there are many other couple younger here for you to meet take care

so again politly i responded ummm we just liked the picture u uploaded u dont have to worry about us, have a nice day

and like that she deleted the email and blocked us. now i know its kinda funny but then i thought to myself wtf are we doing? i know some people are lame but i wouldn't want to talk to them in real life imagine talking to them after they saw us half naked in pictures, and like that we are out of the online sites as we found them preaty lame compared to just talking face to face..

well that was long tnx for reading whats yours bizarre online encounter ?

Oh, you are just getting warmed up! We get rejected on line 75-90% of the time. We do decline to meet other people, too. The problem on line is that a large number of people are not swingers and have no intent to swing. On SLS, if the couple has no certs, they may fall into this category.

We like to attend the Bliss cruise. Many experienced swingers, you have all week to close the deal.

I received a message from a single guy saying we had a mutual friend but he didn’t have permission to tell me who. I found it creepy and let him know so. I finally hear back “Her Name, you stupid cunt.” I let her know of this exchange, wonder if she’ll continue to invite him to parties.

We are lifetime members on SLS and have had several offers for certs, but we always decline...it's nobody else's business who we choose to play with. Don't assume that because someone doesn't have certs, they are not legit (unless they are free members).

In the OP’s case I suspect it may have been the repeated comments were perhaps being interpreted as interest and the other couple just wanted to be clear.

GoldCo have you ever been questioned on the lack of certs as a lifetime member? I completely understand your position though.

I did email Her Name and let her know what her “friend” said to me. She admitted knowing him and said she would ask him not to refer to her as a friend. She also wondered what I had said to make him so angry. What could I have said that is worthy of being called a Stupid cunt?

I can see how that last comment might have come across as a bit snarky. You don't always need to have the last word ya know.

Now, as 40 and 50 somethings we'd have been thrilled to have our pics liked by some 20 somethings and probably would have pursued that to some extent. You never know what people are into and you'll never find out if you don't at least test the water. You liked their pic, they thought "hey here is a hot 20 something couple who may have an interest in us". Sure chances are slim but they still exist. Maybe she has a daddy fetish. You never know. Their comment about there being younger couples was a way of them asking if you were interested in an older couple without coming right out and asking it. Your response was a little snarky but it answered the question. At that point they knew there was nothing to pursue and had no further need to talk with you or have you showing up on their "looked at us" page. It would just be a reminder that they aren't 20 somethings anymore. Here's the real deal. If you try to read intentions, beyond face value, into what someone else says or does you're most likely going to be wrong and it's going to leave you scratching your head, or worse, responding with matching intentions of what you interpreted their intentions to be. A recipe for disaster.

After saying all that I'll say we did the same thing after a couple of bad experiences on websites. We closed our accounts. To much time for too little payoff. We can find out all we need to in a few minutes of face to face conversation in a club than hours of back and forth subversion, ten year old pics and outright lies about intentions, play styles, etc. from someone on a website.

We address the topic of certifications in our profile:

About certifications: We understand the pros and cons, and we make no judgment about couples who give them or accept them. But for us, discretion rules the day. Who we play with is not something we choose to share with anyone who happens to read our profile.

If others pass us by because of our stance - so be it...

When we first attempted to meet a couple we were very nervous. We didn’t post pictures and were careful when we sent any picture by email. We joined sites that were free. We were afraid to let our real info be public. We didn’t realize that many real people would write us because we were free. It makes much more sense now.

We got plenty of men to write us. Not what we were looking for. There were couples that seemed real that never showed up for real meetings. We would get pictures of men and their cocks and women with spread legs. We learned to throw those people to the don’t bother pile. We even had phone calls with couples that never showed. It became a game of real or fake with us. We figured out all were fake. We continued to play the game. To us it was fun and always led to a night of sex alone.

We were amazed when the 20something couple wrote to us. Sent us real pictures fully clothed and we sent the same. Not trusting them we asked for a picture with them and a newspaper. They sent back a nude of them holding that day’s paper. Picture was too good and the guy had a huge one. Linda said it was bullshit. We tried to see if it was a photoshop. For sure were being punk’d. Why would they want us. We are way older. We were sure they wouldn’t show up. We were prepared for a no show.

They showed. It wasn’t perfect. It was our first.