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What's the event or moment that stands out in your memory the most while swinging- or, the most exciting fantasy that you got to see fulfilled?

 

For me (Mr. T), it was getting to watch Mrs. C share a double ended dildo with another lovely woman and listening to the both of them orgasm at the same time- several times, in fact.

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Wow! I mean wow! That's so hot! I hope we have experiences like this in the future. Keep posting!

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I would have to say our first MFM which was our first real swing experience. Not because it was hotter or greater than the ones that followed but it was as if the MFM was permission to release my inner slut, and by god, she’s refused to go away so, at least to hubby, to me, life has become a whole new sexual adventure and, at least to hubby, each time is hotter than the last. To my first hubby, I was arm candy, be seen and not heard, look great, but don’t flirt, sit and be a good wife while he was the life of the party. Now, I can be the life of the party if I like.

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Everytime Ms Dive has brought one of her friends home to "play in the pool", it is a fantasy fulfilled. She definitely knows who is gonna turn me on. Have we been together too long? Nah, just getting started.........

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Without a doubt, the first time I watched my husband have sex with another woman.

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This may be too focused but wth. As a bisexual with a strong oral fixation, the high point of my sexual life was licking a pussy being fucked.

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There's not much better than that! The combined flavors after they cum is pretty darn tasty!

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Her first time with another man in front of me since we were married couldn't have been more perfect. She was so shy and nervous it was like watching a virgin. She kept her eyes closed from the moment she was naked and laying on her back on the bed waiting for him.

 

As he began to press his cock into her her mouth and eyes opened wide to look at him and down at his cock as he pushed into her.

 

I'm always amazed when somebody describes an experience that seems so consistent with our own. Very well described.

 

We had initially met up with our friends in the pool for our first soft play night as a couple, and her first time touching another man in almost ten years. She had to literally get out of the pool and collect herself for a minute when she touched his cock for the first time.

 

Then she was on board and ended up topless between his legs on a pool lounger, same wide-eyed "I'm really doing this" expression. As first she was just touching it, but then he pushed her hair back and she wrapped her lips around it.

 

Every muscle in my body tensed up for the duration. When he came, she missed the last spurt. When she stood up she looked like she was lost in a strange town and wandered around for a moment before we had to break the news that the she had her friend's husband's cum all over her chin.

 

Our first full swap was with that couple the following evening.

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My best / most standout experience was when I was dating a German girl who agreed to try swinging with me, some months later I actually met a nice Polish girl and what followed was some months of me having them both in bed. Me and English man sleeping with a German and Polish girl at the same time. It went on for some months and the Polish girl lived a 5 minute walk from our house so 3,4,5 nights a week I'd come home from work and there would be two girls waiting for me.

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Our firs mfm , she has never been with anyone else over 30 years except me, so meet this gentleman at restaurant week before we we gonna meet again so mrs gets comfortable with him we talk flirt then we go home without anything happening, that was the plan just to get to know one another, week of time they text each other with flirting and some pictures, I had seen in he's profile he's private album he was huge? Big and thick, so when he asked mrs to do you want to see what you be playing with tomorrow night, she said yes, and he sent her a picture so I saw the picture and said to my wife wowww honey he's really big so you know, she didn't think much of it and I let it go, figured she will find out soon, the day came we met at the hotel while we were getting undressed he was also but 15 feet away from us , I was facing my wife, I was asking something to my wife she was answering me then she stopped talking, when I loooked her face impression she was like ? I looked back at our friend he was naked and hard very thick, I knew she was going to enjoy that, especially at some point she took him in her mouth she was full I knew what she was thinking, how am I going to take that in me!! But she gladly did and as our firs ever playing was extremely memorable and success, I didn't think I could possibly top my fantasy with a reality, but happened, yes she was little bruised by it the next few days. But never stopped us keep having fun

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For me, my most memorable swing event went like this.

 

My wife and I were fairly active in the swing community, and we were contacted by another couple. We went back and forth for a couple of months, they seemed reluctant to meet, I didn’t push - after all, if they’re not ready, they’re just not ready, right?

 

So, finally, they agreed to meet for drinks at a bar. We go over, have a great time, we invite them to our home, they accept. We sit around for over an hour, nothing is happening. I’m trying to make some moves on this sexy lady, but for one reason or another, it’s just not going anywhere. They’re getting ready to leave, the lady gives me a nice and very suggestive kiss as they’re at the door on the way out. I whisper into her ear, “Would you like to come upstairs with me?”

 

To my surprise, she agrees and announces to her husband what she’s going to do. We head up to the master bedroom, go slow for a little while waiting for our spouses, and then when they don’t appear, we make wonderful love for over an hour. (The spouses were doing the same thing downstairs.)

 

We became great friends with this couple, meeting with them often and traveling with them.

 

Fifteen years later, our spouses are out of the picture. (One death, one divorce - not from swinging.) And that wonderful lady is now my girlfriend.

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Will add here, I've posted about this elsewhere but we had a long-running "ski-poling" fantasy/joke as an easy intro for Mrs. E into swinging. When we were first talking about it, she was convinced that she would hesitate about having sex with a stranger but that hands were meaningless, so it became kind of an in-joke between us about her giving two men handjobs. We only fulfilled it a month or so ago and she couldn't stop giggling until we'd both cum. Very fun memory.

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Our standout in memory experience was our first swing club experience in London. Nude slow dancing, watching other couples have sex and then having a fairly large number of couples standing around a center of room sexy color spot lit round bed watch us have sex. It was our first experience having sex in front of other couples after we were married. At the time, it seemed the thing to do. P.S. we stuck together and did not play with others. Julie

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This may be too focused but wth. As a bisexual with a strong oral fixation, the high point of my sexual life was licking a pussy being fucked.

 

Are you a guy or woman? We all like doing that.

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several with the same single man stick out. one, is The time that we tried double penetration with mild success, I was straddling crazed as he entered my pussy,J came up between crazed knees and began massaging my ass and squeezed out some lube rubbing it in. I flinched at first when he touch my asshole as I had not done anal successfully yet but he was gentle and slow and waiting for me to get into the sensation crazed was creating. when he knew I was aptly distracted, he just plunged right in!!!I didn't have time to be scared, I only felt...extremely full. we moved together in tandem for a bit then I got a little too carried away and crazed slipped free. J just continued to move in my ass and crazed was still sliding between my lips with every thrust he hit my clit when he senses that J was almost there, and so was he, crazed reached up and squeezed my nipples sending me over the edge we all came together and it was very very memorable.

 

Crazed may decide to chime in as well, but I know he has told me that one thing that made it so hot for him, is watching both my own and J's reactions to each other while being in such an intimate vantage point.

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My biggest fantasy fulfilled was our first time we swapped. It was our friends and my wife's best friend having sex with me. I think I fantacized that a few times. Before it happened I never thought I would see my wife and her having oral sex together and I know I didn't have a fantasy of watching my wife have sex with another man.

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Firsts are always memorable when it comes to sex. What woman doesn't remember every detail of the first time she kissed, first time she was touched, the first time she touched "that thing" and the day she gave in.

I never had a fantasy of swinging. I may have daydreamed while reading a novel that a handsome man would be romantic with me. I never had a fantasy of having Mr. Grey pinning me down. I'm more the type that wants the soft kiss that escalates. That's what I got on our first swap. The next day that same lover became Grey and I hated it. If the that second day switched with the first, my swinging days would most likely not gone on.

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That first year or two in the LF is just so exhilarating because one you step into it, each new event is kind of like living a fantasy that you may or may not have had. Ours started with MFM but probably really started when we happened into the Garden of Eden in Key West, a roof top bar where patrons dance topless or nude. I wanted to try it and it just felt so wonderful. After that, several MFM, swaps at a couples club, vacations at Hedo and Desires, we were in a somewhat sleepy area on the FL coast, small motel, Thursday night, off season. Had been to the bar down the street, closed it at midnight, came back to the motel and hubby and I went skinny dipping in the ocean behind us. Came back out, carrying our bathing suits in the dark, showered off in the motels cold outdoor shower and made s statement about how fucking cold it was. Suddenly from the dark, a voice came out, come over and have shots with us, it will warm you up. There were four guys on a picnic table, guests of the motel as well. We joined them, me topless but with a small towel, we had apparently dropped my bikini top. Well, it went shots, body shots, to each guy getting a turn. Next morning I awoke, turned to hubby and asked, was that a GB. He assured me it was.

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I went to BDSM birthday party where the lady guest was screwed doggy style over the kitchen table by a dominatrix husband with an 11 inch cock. His cock had a huge gold PA and the underside of his cock also was pierced for the bar bell. He lasted forever and the woman had several orgasms until he was ordered to pull out without coming. His wife the dominatrix strapped on a dildo and fucked the birthday girl in the ass and I could hear her cries in the other room while I was getting whipped. Things got wilder when the husband with the big cock sucked off the husband whose wife was getting screwed in the ass at the same time. A beautiful dominant woman from San Francisco force me to kneel and suck dildo that she had strapped to her waist almost gagging me as she shoved it all the way down my throat. I had to leave early and get back to my girlfriend who allowed me to go threatening that if I had sex with anyone I would pay steep price. But it was definitely one of a kind party with lots of naked breasts and wild sex.

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When my wife let a girl go down on her, after saying it would never happen.

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When my wife let a girl go down on her, after saying it would never happen.

 

My wife let a girl go down on her it was so amazing. The other woman was bent over getting fucked by her husband while licking my wofe’s pussy. I was kissing my wife and sucking her tits. It was sooo hot!

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When my wife let a girl go down on her, after saying it would never happen.

 

How did that happen? How did she like it? Did she get off? how did it feel watching it?

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How did that happen? How did she like it? Did she get off? how did it feel watching it?

I was going down on my wife and I told the other girl to play with her boobs. I knew my wife was ok with a little touching. Next thing I know they're making out like crazy...I stepped back for a second in awe and the girl asked my wife if it was ok to lick her. I asked if she was comfortable with this and she said yes...next thing I know she's having an epic orgasm. It was quite a sight to see! I doubt she would ever reciprocate...but after that who knows? We'll have to wait and see.

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Since this thread is still alive... I've mentioned a couple of times about our recent get-together with two other couples. One major box that we ticked off involved a foursome in a chain, Mrs E. on her back, letting the other husband pump her mouth off the edge of the bed while the wife went down on her, and me taking the wife from behind on the other edge of the bed.

 

Eventually, the wife turned over and asked me to finish on her, and I got the condom off and shot all over her stomach. That was what Mrs. E needed to really break the ice and bend over for the other husband while the wife kissed us both. I'm hoping those two ladies maintain a lasting friendship.

 

After that night we finally had a few of sessions with all six of us together again, with two queen-size beds to share between us. Six is a GREAT number.

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To me enacting fantasies is like a drug. Every time I enact one, the tolerance level goes up, and I need a bit more. So I will narrate only the last one and you can imagine what must have come before. We are at the resort having lunch and three guys want to join us. We gladly let them in and start chatting. While my husband is away, one of them said, "We saw you last night with this guy, and you were fabulous. We watched you having orgasm after orgasm." While thanking him, I said "Did you get an erection?" He said, it hasn't subsided since then. I put my hand to check and it was stiff.

"So, you want to fuck me?" I asked. In unison all three replied, "Yes." I asked, "Together or separate." "Is it possible to do it together?" they sang." I looked at my husband and he said, "Your fantasy is about to get real." We fixed a time for 10 p.m. that night.

In my room, they showered me and each one took turn to give me one oral orgasm, one penile orgasm and one anal orgasm. Because they were in condoms, none of them wanted to waste their semen inside their condom, they were stiff after all that fucking. At the end they all shagged on me. One in my mouth, one in my boobs and the other on my vaginal mound that trickled down to the floor via my ass.

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What's the event or moment - or, the most exciting fantasy that you got to see fulfilled?.
For me the most exciting swinging thing is swapping with a couple (occasionally two), watching my wife fuck another husband while my dick is in his wife, everyone cumming. Then making mad, mad love to my wife.
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Well MY FIRST was back in the days of AOL Chat Rooms that used "geo-suggestive" titles (ala "fuck my wife in Mobile, AL"). After trying DILIGENTLY to get my own wife to "loosen up" and just ENJOY SEX, I got the feeling she wanted me to do what the military would later refer to as "don't ask, don't tell."

 

After a (NO KIDDING!) a YEAR's worth of suggestive, SPECIFIC "flirting" sometimes with hubby (we'll call him Matt) and sometimes with "Peggy" they finally had me go to a VERY SPECIFIC place, wearing a VERY SPECIFIC outfit and staying there for a very specific time period so that THEY could CUm bi and SEE ME without knowing who they were.

 

AFTER that, I was invited to meet them at Barne's & Nobles Book Store in Mobile (now town down).

 

O M G.....Peggy was AMAZING....high heels, short sundress, NO PANTIES, thigh highs who played with my cock thru my pants with her stocking foot as we chatted. Matt was obviously a "sugar daddy" and Peggy was a "Trophy Wife."

 

I was invited their home THAT DAY and Matt sat in a chair in the nude stroking his cock as Peggy sucked my cock and made me cum on her tits.

 

These meetings went on for nearly three years with ESCALATING OPTIONS planned for as THE OBJECTIVE for the next meeting. I'm fond of saying that Matt & Peggy "taught me to beCUM bisexual" and that licking her pussy as Matt fucked her was AMAZING and feeling Matt lick my cock and balls AND ASS as I fucked Peggy was incredible.

 

The first time I tasted my own cum was when Peggy rode me "Cowgirl" (it was also the first time I was told NOT to wear a condom so I could "CUM in her PUSSY"). As I shot my load, Peggy popped off my cock and straddled my face as Matt went down on my cummy-pussy wetted cock (the first time a man sucked my cock bi the way!) and I reacted bi jerking my face up into Peggy's pussy which she gleefully grasped and exclaimed, "YES...EAT YOUR CUM IN MY CUNT!"

 

Talking dirty was a MAJOR FEATURE of this relationship and I feel ABSOLUTELY AMAZED at how much FUN fucking Peggy with Matt would beCUM!!!

 

Unfortunately, Peggy got transferred to Miami and even tho we tried to RDVU at Hedo III (where I took my wife hoping to get Matt & Peggy to SEDUCE MY WIFE), we lost touch.

 

I've been trying to replicate that AMAZING "mountain climb on Everest" ever since.

 

Holy shit that's so hot!

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For me it is not one thing...it's all the firsts that have happened while swinging or stepping out as a hotwife. I have fond and vivid memories of our experiences and still enjoy the anticipation of sharing. Some that are maybe more special:

 

I had my first virgin as a swinger. I seduced a young man and gave him sex lessons for 4 months.

The first time I ate pussy

The first time I sucked on a stranger and swallowed his ejaculation

And the first time I accepted a bare cock and let a lover fill me with his sex. I did it while looking at my husband and I was overwhelmed with how good it felt and how close I felt with my loving husband. The guy let it go in me and I could feel the excitement in his cock and his sperm bathe my uterus. It was intense...

 

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So I had met a guy in my vanilla life that I had a huge crush on.  He was hot, and confident, and really nice.  I had been crushing on him hard for about a year and a half, before I was presented an opportunity to do something about it.  That was my most erotic instance, I had been fantasizing about this man and wanted him soooo bad, when the time came I was extremely over the top turned on.  To this day he was my favorite fuck.  

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On 12/4/2020 at 8:45 AM, JessicaJamison said:

So I had met a guy in my vanilla life that I had a huge crush on.  He was hot, and confident, and really nice.  I had been crushing on him hard for about a year and a half, before I was presented an opportunity to do something about it.  That was my most erotic instance, I had been fantasizing about this man and wanted him soooo bad, when the time came I was extremely over the top turned on.  To this day he was my favorite fuck.  

So tell us about the experience when the time actually *came.*

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2 minutes ago, Baconheads said:

So tell us about the experience when the time actually *came.*

I don't know, I've been told I share too much.  in fact someone was mean enough to start an entire subpost complaining about me bragging to much, so I've been leaving out details, so I don't seem so Braggy  whatever that is.  Sorry.  

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Jessica sweat it not. People are starting to get to know you. In any community there is always a getting acquainted curve.

When someone has a .... (looking for word) ... out there presence then that curve can get a bit bumpy.

 

Of all the posts that I read, and there WERE quite a few, there was not one that was off topic or not interesting.

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33 minutes ago, lcmim said:

Jessica sweat it not. People are starting to get to know you. In any community there is always a getting acquainted curve.

When someone has a .... (looking for word) ... out there presence then that curve can get a bit bumpy.

 

Of all the posts that I read, and there WERE quite a few, there was not one that was off topic or not interesting.

I am outgoing, but this entire website is built around being actively involved.  The way that I know that is because if I go to my profile or for that matter anybodies profile the first and pretty much only piece of information it gives is their site score, how many posts, how many quotes, how many likes.  All of that is based on posting.  I wasn't trying to upset people, and I have felt like I was keeping it relevant.  I just wasn't trying to be braggy, that felt hurtful.  

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1 minute ago, JessicaJamison said:

but this entire website is built around being actively involved.

This is true!! Without activity this site will die.  The more activity, the better!

 

You are keeping it relevant and I for one am thankful to have you here as a new voice since that is what a vibrant community has to have...old voices, new voices, lots of voices. 

 

Just like any large group, there are always going to be some who want this but don't want that, and vice versa. The site platform we are on now, 1) as you astutely realized, is specifically geared towards recognizing and rewarding activity because that's the lifeblood of a vibrant healthy online community, and 2) gives members different ways of customizing the content they see to suit whatever it is they want, or don't want. A member's only responsibility here is to stay within the Site Rules and TOS (i.e. no spam, etc.), not to try to make every other member happy by more posts, fewer posts, or whatever. Why? Because that's impossible, no one can ever please everyone on a site this large. If someone doesn't like something, the burden is on them to use the tools available to them to tailor what they see to what they want to see, not on everyone else to only give them what they want to see.

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Our 2 best memories are from the same night.   The Mrs and I were at a club and they had a sex swing.   Once we figured out out to get her in it (which was funny to watch) I got busy on her.  What a fun time that was.   Then we opened the door put the chain on and had a crowd watching us on the bed.   One man watching said taken that shit.   Fun night.   When covid finally end planning to celebrate on the swing.  Oh happy day.

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On 12/7/2020 at 1:43 PM, JessicaJamison said:

someone was mean enough to start an entire subpost complaining about me bragging to much

Ignore him/her.  If you hold back it deprives the rest of us.  I appreciate you posting, thanks. 

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Last year, I had my mouth treated as a cum receptacle. Had about 15 guys shoot their load into my mouth. It was a fantasy I never knew I wanted.

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