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    Default Getting out there again.

    Well, it's been almost a year since the last time I was on here. I doubt anyone remembers, but my wife and I had one encounter, that moved pretty fast and left her feeling a bit left out. She also had worries about some medical issues she wanted to get worked out and turns out everything is fine. So now, nearly a year later, we decided to sign back up for the site and look around again. I don't know if we are just lucky or not, but after browsing the site for a while and messaging a few couples, we got a couple responses and started chatting with a couple on kik. Once again we hit it off with them nearly immediately and spent quite a few hours chatting on kik with them. Turns out, they have only ever been with one other couple too and she was left less than satisfied as well. We talked for a while about both our encounters and why both females felt left out and have been pretty reassured that will not happen this time around. I definitely feel like this conversation about expectations should have been something we had our first time which may have prevented our lackluster experience the first time. So anyone else new to this, take that as advice. Always talk about what you want to get out of it ahead of time.

    Now we have set a date to meet with them, though due to schedules it's almost 2 weeks away. We are very excited and hope to chat with them a few more times before the meet-up. I'll come back and share how it went for sure, and probably be around here more often again.


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    Great to have you both back and in playing shape. Hope it turns out to be everything you wanted it to be. Be sure to give us a report.

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    Sending my sincere wish for you having a fun and fulfilling encounter.

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    Well, as an update to our renewed adventures in swinging, since the date I mentioned is a week away, we actually decided to go to the club here in town tonight just for the hell of it. We'll see what happens. A little nervous about going to a club, I don't even go to vanilla clubs. Should be fun to check out though and it's a Kasidie.com meet and greet night, so hopefully there will be a good amount of people there.

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    Good luck and have fun!

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    Welcome back. I too am back after a long hiatus. When I logged in today, it told me that my last activity was 2011.
    I feel that a woman doesn't have to be called 'Ms.' in order to be a woman of her own making. I believe 'Miss' allows moi to be a woman, and my karate can get me anything else

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    So went to the club friday night, though we did not see the couple we met online that said they might be there. We still had a great night though. Just hung out in the main area enjoying the view for a while. We did go back and check out the play area and decided to have a little fun with ourselves but left the curtain open. After a while a couple walked up and after observing for a while the guy asked my wife if i could fuck his. My wife quickly answered only if you fuck me and started taking his pants off to suck his dick. She asked me what position i preferred and i told her whatever she enjoys the most. She said from behind and assumed the position so i slipped on a condom and went for it. Before we knew it, they were calling 10 minutes to closing, so we cleaned up, got dressed, went home and I fucked my wife some more. Now i just cant wait for our date on Friday and looking forward to going back to the club in another week or two.

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    Sounds like you two are off and running! Thanks for sharing with the rest of us and glad that you are back.

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    Well, I wouldn't say running. If we were running, we may have had the courage to talk to one of the 3 couples there we would have preferred join us. Instead, we just kinda chickened out and went to play by ourselves and hoped someone joined us. It worked out though. Maybe next time we'll be a little more comfortable and actually talk to people, instead of just fucking them, lol. We didn't realize it until the next day, but we didn't even get the names of the couple that joined us. Afterwards, as she was getting dressed, my wife did ask them if they came here often. She answered, when I am in town, I live about 6 hours away. They then pretty much got up and left and it was over. Honestly, that was both of our first time having sex with a complete stranger. No names, no phone numbers, no plans for any sort of future contact or anything. It was pretty hot. Just thinking about it again, I still kinda wish we had talked to one of those other couples, buit gets me turned on thinking about it. We just had sex with complete strangers we will likely never see again.


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    Even GOING to a club is more than 99% of the people ever do. Just because you didn't talk to some other couples (although IMHO what you did do was much better than talking)...there will always be other couples, and you very likely will run across them again in the future. Dwell on the positive and learn from everything else. I would say that next time things will be better, but it sounds like they were pretty okay already. Let us know when you go the next time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoCouple View Post
    Even GOING to a club is more than 99% of the people ever do. Just because you didn't talk to some other couples (although IMHO what you did do was much better than talking)...there will always be other couples, and you very likely will run across them again in the future. Dwell on the positive and learn from everything else. I would say that next time things will be better, but it sounds like they were pretty okay already. Let us know when you go the next time.
    Well, yeah, I guess that's true. We had been eyeing thee two other couples all night long, but it seemed like they were trying their hardest to not look at anyone at all, instead focusing on the music videos or pornos that were on. What was weird, was when we headed back to the play area, both couples followed shortly thereafter, but got their own rooms and closed the curtains. It was after about 30 minutes or so that the other couple that joined us was leaving their room, stopped and watched a bit, left and talked then came back. The only reason I wish we had talked to the other couples is that they were in the room right across from us and you can pretty much see right through those curtains. The way she rode him made me wish I was with her instead of the one I was with, Like you said though, maybe we see them again, maybe next time. We are planning on going back, maybe next weekend.

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    ...maybe they were both nubies as well and were afraid that if they were 'caught' looking at anyone, someone might come over and talk to them...and want sex

    Learn from this visit and next time say hello
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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoCouple View Post
    ...maybe they were both nubies as well and were afraid that if they were 'caught' looking at anyone, someone might come over and talk to them...and want sex

    Learn from this visit and next time say hello
    Yeah, probably, and next visit we have already discussed we will attempt to talk to at least one other couple.

    On another note, looks like the date we had planned for tonight is a bust. We messaged the other couple on kik Wed night, because while we had set a place, we had never set a time. When we went to set a time, the guy dropped the conversation a little while later. Asked again last night since she was still in the conversation and no response. Thought it was kind of odd that they did not reply to us last weekend as well, but they did tell us he normally works 90 hours weeks and she is always busy as well, so thought maybe it was just that they did not have time. With the latest non-responsiveness and then him dropping though, think we were dealing with a pic collector or something. Oh well. Wife started today anyway, which is a little odd because it's about a week early, but no big deal. We couldn't do anything tonight anyway, so instead we're just gonna go back to the club next week for some more fun.

    There's another couple we've been messaging in AFF that may meet us there, but they are a little hesitant as they are newer at this than we are. They have been to the club a few times but not really done anything. We basically told them no worries, no pressure, if nothing happens whatever. We are also just looking for some friends because this lifestyle is exciting and we want to talk to others about it but can not talk to any of our vanilla friends. So even if we meet and nothing happens, at least we both have someone to talk to about stuff. They seemed very receptive to the idea and liked the total no pressure. We clearly told them we don't mind going, meeting you and just playing with our own spouses, or we'll play and you don't have to even go back. If more happens, great, all for it. If it doesn't, no hard feelings and we can still be friends.

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    They may (or he may) just be wannabes. They (or just he) want something to happen but know that she won't let it. Don't care how much he works, not answering is just rude and we would move on to the next couple. Good luck on your next visit and let us know how it goes...
    If you donít have to lie about sex, you donít have to lie about anything. - John Williamson

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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoCouple View Post
    They may (or he may) just be wannabes. They (or just he) want something to happen but know that she won't let it. Don't care how much he works, not answering is just rude and we would move on to the next couple. Good luck on your next visit and let us know how it goes...
    Yeah, who knows, de-friended them on the site and not thinking about them anymore. Almost ended up not going to the club this weekend though as my wife had an old high school friend who contacted her and wanted to hang out. They ended up having something come up and we had already dropped our daughter off at the babysitters, so we headed back home, got dressed up a little nicer and headed to the club!!

    Was great fun, we were there, enjoying the view and then they had a best booty contest. Only 4 girls joined and I still say the third girl should have won. She clearly had the best ass IMO. Oh well, different tastes for different people. After that, my wife wanted to try out the sybian they have in the play room, but on our way back, we saw the couple we had fun with last time!

    Now we know their names, and got their numbers. We talked for a bit, turns out they this was their first time back to the club, or doing anything lifestyle related also. Talked a little more about their experiences and turns out they are pretty new as well, only been trying to get things done for about 6 months. Also, they kinda said that the other couples they had been with usually the man did not really do it for her so they were really glad they ran in to us again, they were actually really hoping they would. That made me feel great that's for sure! They came back and enjoyed watching my wife on the machine as much as I did. Then we headed back out into the club for a quick smoke and ended up talking to another couple. Well they talked to us because they are regulars and did not recognize us so wanted to say hi. They kinda made it clear they were not there to play tonight which was fine, because as soon as my wife was ready were were already planning on going back with the other couple, but if we saw them there again to definitely talk to them, they were interested in us and we were interested in them.

    We ended up going back there with the other couple pretty quickly and she was all over me as soon as we got back there, and my wife was all over him. We ended up, once again, completely losing track of time and before we knew it lights were coming on and everyone was being told to get out. We didn't even hear the 10 minute warning we heard last time. That's the craziest part of this to me. We just lost all track of time. Was back there, going at it pretty much the whole time, for over an hour, and just did not even realize it, or anything else going on around us really. If it weren't for being kicked out, we probably would have just kept going for another hour or two, we certainly went at each other for quite some time once we got home. Though at home, we did start watching the clock again, as I had to pick my daughter up in the morning so we could take her to Six Flags. It's just amazing sex though. Almost as good as the sex we had when we first started going out nearly 15 years ago. I simply can not wait until we have the time and availability to go again. I do kinda hope we do not run in to the same couple again as I want other, different experiences, but I certainly wouldn't mind either.

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    Well I am super excited yet again. The wife called me a little while ago to let me know that one of my daughter's cousin's is spending the night at her other cousin's and they called to invite her to spend the night too. Yay for surprise free overnight babysitter!! My wife called to tell me that AND suggested that since we have the babysitter, why not go to the club again tonight!! That will make 3 visits in one month. I guess we really are off and running this time around. Both of us are hoping for another great full swap experience tonight.


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    ...anything interesting happen?
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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoCouple View Post


    ...anything interesting happen?
    No, we ended up not going sadly. We were both really hungry after her Mom picked up our daughter and we went out to eat....and went a little overboard. We were both feeling miserable so just had a quiet night in. Way later once the food had settled a bit we did have fun with each other though. Then again in the morning after which we both went back to sleep, then again when we woke up again. It was still a fun sex filled night and morning, just no club and did not share with anyone. We are gonna go back soon and I promise I will report here. It feels good to get it out in the open and talk about it and besides with my wife, I just can't do that anywhere else.

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    Awwww....J/K there's no rush. Have fun and enjoy.
    If you donít have to lie about sex, you donít have to lie about anything. - John Williamson

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    Glad to see you kept at it...some things don't always work out the first time, persistence is definitely a virtue in the lifestyle.

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    Persistence in just about anything is almost a requirement...
    If you donít have to lie about sex, you donít have to lie about anything. - John Williamson

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    Well, our clubs theme this Saturday is "Little Black Dress" and seeing as we just purchased two new little black dresses for my wife and they got here Monday, we took that as a sign we are supposed to go to the club this Saturday so are going to make it happen no matter what it takes.

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    Nothing hotter than a little black dress! There IS a photo section here...good luck this weekend.
    If you donít have to lie about sex, you donít have to lie about anything. - John Williamson

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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoCouple View Post
    Nothing hotter than a little black dress! There IS a photo section here...good luck this weekend.
    I did forget about the photo section. I just think about this as a place to talk to people and kinda use this thread to log our adventures. I guess for those reading it some pics would be nice. Nothing sexy up there yet, but I added one of us dressed up nice before our firrt trip to the club for you.


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