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No exciting story (yet) or drama to share, just our happy feelings about the fact we might have another swing date next weekend.

 

As we have posted elsewhere in this board, we are still beginners at this. We started of some years ago with discussing and trying and in November we had our first hotel date and (soft) swap with a nice hetero couple. Lots of emotions afterwards, but things smoothed out in the months after that and in March we had a second and for everyone wonderful evening in an hotel, again only soft swap but it was great fun. MsDiscover and I were ready for a full swap but the other couple was not so we shared everything besides intercourse.

 

Another set of months passed by and we and this couple are all ready for a third date. So we have booked a nice room at a luxurious hotel at the Belgian coast for next whole Saturday and night. And found a place where the kids will stay. MsD may have her period started that weekend so that may be an obstacle, besides changing moods from one of us four. But is is hard enough already to align everything so we just planned this date and we will see what we are going to do. Maybe completely vanilla, maybe all the way, maybe somewhere between.

 

We'll see.

 

But we are all looking forward to it & like to shout the news about our 'friends with benefits' from the rooftops. As that might be not socially accepted yet in our neighborhood, we post our happiness here instead. :)

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Periods screw with schedules so much. I hope MsDiscover's period shows up after the playdate so it won't be a problem but no matter what I hope you all have fun next weekend!

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I too am happy to have a place to express enthusiasm while remaining discrete. Have a really great time on the Belgium coast.

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Omg, I never even thought about the issue of periods. I know, how silly of me! But honestly I have pretty much been pregnant or nursing nonstop since 2008, so I've had very few periods and I totally forget that I'll be back to dealing with them myself in the next few months. Boo...

 

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What wonderful news the share indeed! I hope you'll come back to update us after your meet.

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One of my favorite pieces of swinging wisdom is to go out with no expectations other than having a great outing together, and you can't go wrong. No matter what happens, I'm sure you will have a great time together with each other and with your friends, so mission accomplished! :)

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Omg, I never even thought about the issue of periods.

 

We neither until we started swinging for real. Since we decided we wanted to start with a couple first, we thought about syncing schedules and a need for a child minder for both couples (we both have kids that can't stay at home alone yet). And indeed it proved to be difficult to sync that.

 

But on top of that is the issue of periods. The two women are not in sync so that leaves roughly half of the time to play. A bit of a drawback of a hetero foursome, I think. MFM would be so different regarding that aspect. :) Of course periods doesn't have to be a road block at all. There are quite some discussions on periods & sex on this wonderful board. MsD uses a Beppy when sex (or sauna, swimming etc) is on the schedule. But unfortunately, periods come with heavy pains for MsD sometimes and of course that is not a good foundation for lust.

 

Besides, I'm not afraid of bit of blood, smell, tissue etc. But it takes a lot of confidence for MsD to share herself knowing there is a chance of exposing that to me. Let alone a play partner.

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One of my favorite pieces of swinging wisdom is to go out with no expectations other than having a great outing together, and you can't go wrong.

 

This is exactly the biggest lesson learned from our first date, we applied that wisdom to our second date and it was the biggest reason why that one was a success.

 

We booked an hotel in the dunes, only 60 yards of the beach. So we will have a great time no matter what. :-)

 

 

What wonderful news the share indeed! I hope you'll come back to update us after your meet.

 

Of course I will do that :)

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I think this is maybe I like of the LS the most: that special feeling, a bit of nervousness, in the days leading to the date. Only one night of sleep and it is Saturday and we will have our third date, I'm typing this as the evening falls over my country.

 

As you know we don't have a very big track record, only one good and one not so good date untill now, so we also feel a bit unsure if this will be just a success like the second date. We'll see. Maybe one of us four is not in the mood, maybe MsD has a period. But even then, we will have lots of laughs an a great time in a very nice hotel in the dunes. And if we will play, it can go anywhere. MsD is definitely looking forward to be fucked silly by him, I would love to place the tip of my dick at that tiny wonderful pussy of her. Maybe they want to full swap this time, maybe not.

 

We text a bit with the other couple, we use a group on Whatsapp for that so all four are in the loop.. They have a night out, we talked a bit about that and about tomorrow and how we hope it will be great weather like today. Nothing too sexy, sex and getting physical seems always to be the elephant in the room if we meet vanilla, both offline and online.

 

Tomorrow morning will be busy. Bringing the kids to where they are going to stay this weekend, buying all the little things for our date. Fueling the car, packing our bags and passports etc. Taking a shower, a shave etc. Driving to our hotel. And all that time a little ticklish feeling of anticipation.

 

We love it!

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Can't wait to hear about your date.

 

Our very first date is next weekend and I go back and forth between crazy excited and crazy nervous. I've been chatting a bit with them today so right now it's more crazy excited.

 

Hope you have a great time!

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It's thinking about all of the 'what if's' and 'what MIGHT happen' that makes is so much more exciting. Good luck!

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Do you like that excitement too, PandO? Or is it more like 'nerve wracking'?

Because we are talking about our first time EVER, I'm going to go with the nerve wracking option.

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Okay, as promised some more about our date. tl;dr: everything went great, still enjoying the afterglow.

 

Longer version: I went to town to buy the last things. Things like batteries for the LED candles, a few bottles of water and fresh juice, some salted nuts and other random snacks. And fresh mints.

 

Meanwhile, MsD was packing the luggage of the kids and our playtime-luggage. That last set of suitcases contained my suit and shirt, her stockings, lace corset and our nicest underwear. Also in our bags: our three little but trusted geek USB/BT vibrators and lots of lube and massage oils. And, just to be sure, my condoms since I have some XL ones that fit me well, I don't trust any others.

 

Two weeks ago, when us four decided to have this date, I booked a nice hotel. Only one room, as the other couple would leave at the end of the night due to an appointment early next day in the eastern part of the Netherlands. We drove to the hotel, a few hours away. We arrived around 2 pm and checked in. Nice, large modern hotel room with a large 7ft long bath and one king-size bed. We hate the two-single-beds arrangement, since we always end up between the two beds. When we have sex just the two of us and we already know it is worse with four. The balcony was huge, almost as large as the room itself, with an amazing look across the Belgian coastline.

 

The other couple would arrive around 4 pm so we had some time to ourselves. We took a bath and last round of shaving and then relaxed.

 

They called us when they arrived in the bar. We kissed and it was great to meet each other again. It is weird and great at the same time to just see each other again, do all the vanilla things vannilla friends do (shake hands, small talk etc) while everyone is very aware we once had great sex too. Something I'm still not used to. But it feels great.

 

We walked to the beach and got some drinks at a beach club. Vanilla talk. But with some touching, a hand, a brush. Looking in each others eyes longer as you would do with vanilla friends. After two great hours of laughing and serious talk, we went back to the hotel for diner, as it has a five star restaurant. Here was that strange phenomena again: after the last round of drinks, some akward silences here and there and nobody (including me) had the courage to say 'let's go upstairs'. It is so hard to go from vanilla to sexy time!

 

MsD had a great idea: yawned, while saying 'I don't want to make this evening too long, I'm getting sleepy'. Let's go upstairs then, said mr H, and we went. Swinging makes such a wonderful picture book of strong memories. And only a part are about sex and body parts. This fond memory: everyone in the rather small elevator, quiet, looking at each other, red cheeks and ears from excitement. These details are so erotic!

 

In the room Mr H and my wife took place on the bed, Ms A and I took the chairs next to each other. Some serious talks about swinging, about boundaries, about what we like and don't like. I started to caress her back and shoulders. Talking with Mr H about the Larger Things in Life, meanwhile unhooking the bra of his wife to give her a good back rub, another great memory. After a while he started to do likewise and before we knew, we were all on the bed, naked.

 

MsD and I gave the other couple a good massage with warm oil for a good hour or so and when everyone was horny as hell, we started some great oral. Ms A and I had a great 69, her on top. She came several times while she squirts. A lot. :) Her husband made my wife come several time too during oral, she jerked him and massaged him (as she is not fond of blow jobs at all). After that, it was one pile of bodies and I'm sorry to report I lost track of the details. I know that at one point, when I was fingering MsA hard with four fingers and she came and came, I her and her husband if they want to full swap, as I really would like to sink my dick in her cunt. She said she was not ready for that and that was okay for everyone.

 

So we played some more, like another hour or so. Fingering hard, cuddling. Soft, hard. And everything between. After some resting and having drinks, I started to fuck MsD from behind, while she was on her side. That way she could still touch and massage the other lady (hot!) and we gave the other couple a nice show as I pulled up one leg of MsD to give everyone a good view. Mr H had done a great job with fingering my wife, she was practically swollen shut and she felt like a vise around my dick when I entered her. I fucked MsD until she could take no more, everything was so sensitive. After that, we both started to focus on the other couple. When Ms A was getting fucked from behind while laying on me in a 69, I could finger her clit well and enjoy the show of her pussy being fucked. Meanwhile MsD was stroking my hard cock and the other people.

 

When Mr H came in his wife while I was fingering her clit, I felt all the wetness and that was amazingly sexy. H and A were spent, were laying in each others arms while enjoying the show of me standing behind the bend over MsDiscover, while I fucked her hard until I came too.

 

After a rest and a shower for everyone, they got dressed and we all kissed each other goodbye.

 

My wife and I had still so much adrenaline rushing, we drank some juice and watched some sports (racing, LeMans) to cool down before we fell asleep in each others arms. At that point we were too exhausted to change the sheets and covers, which were soaked. :blush:

 

This morning we woke up in a bedroom full of sex smells and stains, MsD joked all that squirting had made the bed looked like a few pots of tea were spilled in it. :) This and of course memories of last night turned us on again and we had some great rough re-connection sex. We relaxed for an hour or so after that, reviewing the evening. We agreed it might not be our greatest hobby but we like this way of swinging, it is a good compromise between what we both want. We look at them more as friends with benefits as swingers. We also liked the way we could discuss things with them, we were not afraid to discuss boundaries and all limitations, like how my wife does not give blow jobs, and how we like to full swap and they are not, are respected. This makes it a very safe environment. Which is great!

 

The rest of the day we did our vanilla well-behaved-husband-and-wife things, but with a smile from ear to ear. Walking on clouds. Don't know why, but we can't stop kissing and touching each other. It is such a rush!

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Walking on clouds? Fabulous, fabulous. Size XL condoms? You ain't proud, are you? I am so happy for y'all.

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