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After several months off, we decided we wanted to hit the local club scene again. We felt like we'd gotten into a rut at our regular club, so we decided to change things up and try the other local club.

 

Disaster.

 

Despite being advertised as a "cheap night" the cover price was huge. There was a very small crowd. The music was so loud that it was impossible to hear myself speak, much less listen to anyone's replies, making introducing ourselves to people impossible. The music was also horrible and it took the DJ over an hour to get to our requests (which were the only requests he had, so it's not like there was a huge line of other people's requests ahead of ours) and even when he did, he couldn't find half of them and kept switching back to the horrible stuff he was playing instead. So, we could barely dance. We couldn't talk to anyone and we certainly didn't hook up with anyone. To cap the night off, I ended up taking a wrong turn and, though a misunderstanding of this club's protocol, interrupting another couple in mid action... my bad and majorly embarrassing. They were pretty pissed about it, and in retrospect I don't blame them, but it was an honest mistake on my part. I felt horrible about it.

 

Needless to say, we called it an evening, left, and with my wife's complete agreement, tore up our membership card (only had a month left on it anyway).

 

What really sucks is, all of my lifestyle friends go to this club and post endlessly about what a great time they have and how fun it is. Yet somehow, they are never there when we manage to go and our three experiences at the place have been universally horrible.

 

I'm done with it.

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Sorry to hear about your experience. We try to pick our club nights based on how many are signed up and the theme. School girl night is always packed. Maybe it was just an off night. We've found that music requests are a joke at most clubs. The play list has been set before the party starts and the only way you're going to hear your "request" is if it was going to play anyway.

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OK, reading your rather condemning review of this club made me run to this Web site's Swinger Club Listing and Reviews link and click on Indiana. Maybe this is only a coincidence but the only listing for a club actually in that state (there seems to be one other review for an Illinois club) is for one in Muncie. Makes me wonder some more --- does Muncie have more than one swing club.

 

An inept DJ is something that plagues more than one club. There is one near here that the owners eventually gave over management duties to a younger couple. The first thing that the new managers did was toss the DJ out and hire another. Things, in my humble opinion, improved immediately. You can now actually converse while sitting at a table. Who would have thought?

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If the club you visited is listed in our club reviews please make sure to post a review there. DJs really do have a lot of control over how a night can go, even a great DJ can have an off-night occasionally. Music that would normally bring everyone to the dance floor can't seem to get them even on their feet.

 

I am curious about what happened with this

I ended up taking a wrong turn and, though a misunderstanding of this clubs protocol, interrupting another couple in mid action... my bad and majorly embarrassing.

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I am curious about what happened with this

I ended up taking a wrong turn and, though a misunderstanding of this clubs protocol, interrupting another couple in mid action... my bad and majorly embarrassing.

 

At the other club, the one we go to regularly, there is a "couples only" room, a place for couples to go and hang out where they won't be disturbed by single guys. (Quick background: One of the reasons were switched clubs of this outing was because we had made a practice of hooking up with single guys for threesomes and gang bangs. It had gotten old and we wanted to do something else, but we have kinda a reputation at our regular club... so, new place, no rep, opportunity for change.)

 

Well, wandering around the basement play area of the new club, we spot a sign which says "Couples Only Area" but the doorway is blocked by a chain and a chair. So I think, WTF that's weird. Well, we go upstairs and my wife asks one of the staff about it. The staff member says, that shouldn't be blocked off like that, I'll go fix it. A little later, we go back down and it's chained off again. Well, foolish me, I lift the chain and immediately find myself face to face with a very pissed off pair of men telling me they are using the room, that why they have the chain up and we should go fuck off.

 

Now, I get that for the private rooms the chain over the door is "look but don't come in" but, because of the different protocol at the other club (edit: the couples only room there isn't for private play, it's an open area for people to hang out) and what I understood the staff member to have said, I didn't get that it meant the same thing for the couples only area. I probably should have, but I didn't.

 

That encounter pretty much ruined an already bad evening for us, and we left immediately after.

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I'd say that if a staff member told you that room shouldn't be chained off then you were perfectly right in your actions of attempting to walk in the second time. You did the right thing by asking / checking protocol before walking in the in first place... sounds like an issue with club policies /etiquette not being clear to all more than anything.

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In general, our experiences with any swing club is one night can be bad and another night can be fantastic. It really depends on the crowd, and having a crowd to begin with. Perhaps 3 bad times is really representative of the club, but it could be that those nights just were not good nights. We were at a club last night and I think there were 9 couples there all evening. There was a huge event at another swing club in the area that drew the crowd. We knew 4 of the couples there so we had fun dancing. But still there just was not a good vibe with only 6 people on the dance floor it's just not as nice. A few weeks ago we were there and the crowd was much better (Bunny Night, easter weekend). 2 weeks before that we went on a friday evening and there were maybe 4 couples there. We had some fun on our own, but just not a crazy night. We've been to other clubs with similar turn out and had not so good of a time. I know you had some other issues with the place, but my point is the crowd can make (or break) the night. Oh and yeah the expense can be high. Some of the clubs near us charge $75 or more for Sat night admission, on top of the $50 yearly fee that you would have to pay if it's time.

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