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We met a seemingly lovely couple for drinks and dinner. He was a friendly, but chest-thumping alpha male who jumped in to answer for his wife every time we asked her a question. Eventually I ask her what her first experience in the lifestyle was like and she said "oh I don't remember it". :confused:

 

He jumps in and says "oh yeah - it was great! We went to a bar and I got her plastered, then picked up a guy and had him f&%k her while I took pictures. Those are the shots on our profile!" I asked her how she felt about those very graphic pictures and she said "I've never seen them. I've never even looked at our profile" :eek:

 

When I followed her to the bathroom she wouldn't make eye contact with me or really talk at all. I asked how she felt about "all this" and she said "I guess I'll have to get used to it".

 

Yikes.

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It does happen..... We hope you got out of this situation !

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Right after the bathroom her husband said "so if we're not gonna get naked I guess we oughta head home!" (we had been very explicit that we were not going to play on our first meeting with them).

 

We said buh-bye. And ran for our lives.

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I feel sorry for her. That just sucks that her self-esteem is so low that she won't run from that jerk.

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I've run into a few couples like this over the years, where's obvious she's not into it. All I can say is move on. Unfortunately, there are those who won't care...

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OMG! Similar to our "almost" 3rd experience! Met a CPL that the guy only gave his cell number, his entire profile was written by him on SDC website, he buys all the clothes and dresses his wife right down to the coat of toenail polish, perfume and jewelry and makes all the calls on who she will fuck and won't! SCREW ALL THAT! Last time I checked, this is a women led pastime/lifestyle. The women call a lot of the shots and I am SURE they are quite capable of dressing themselves! Total control freak! We ran like hell! Had that gut feeling he just wanted to fuck my wife and this poor girl would just play along with ANYTHING to let "Daddy" get his way without any interest in myself or my wife as a couple. They were big showoffs also " do you like our swing room? Our wet bar inside and out? Our jacuzzi? Our motorcyclesand sportscars? Our swimming pool? Our 60ft x 30ft partydeck? We like to swing, yes...but holy shit! Were not a slave to this lifestyle! Yes...we ran like HELL! LOL!

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