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We were into our usual sex play with a couple we play with regularly, I am going down on the wife when I see her husband reach over to my husband and start rubbing his balls, then stroking his cock. My husband laid back and let it happen. They then laid foot to head 69'ish and begging jerking each other off. The ladies stopped what they were doing and watched them get each other off as we rubbed ourselves off. Whewwwwwwwww, I hope it happens again!

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Good for you. Not our cup of tea, but if everybody is comfortable with it... have fun!

 

That being said, if we were playing and the male half reached over and started to rub me anywhere... we would probably excuse ourselves and leave. Again, just not our thing.

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Well my husband said it just felt right at the time. We are comfortable with this couple, trusting we all aim to please. He said he didn't resist, it felt good but probaly would not have done it with anyone else. He said he enjoyed stroking the other guy who is well endowed, it just seemed right!

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Isn't that what it is all about? Having fun and going with what feels right at the time? Don't know if I would ever do it, but I say that as long as all involved are okay with it...what's the harm.

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How cool is that? I'm sure you'll be talking about it for a long time to come. My husband and I love to get spontaneous with others and it's about having fun. :)

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Well my husband said it just felt right at the time. We are comfortable with this couple, trusting we all aim to please. He said he didn't resist, it felt good but probaly would not have done it with anyone else. He said he enjoyed stroking the other guy who is well endowed, it just seemed right!

 

Well, there ya go. You liked it. They liked it. Everybody was comfortable.

 

Relax and have fun then!

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hey...whatever turns you on! Different strokes for different folks. My husband has been jerked off by another guy several times while watching us girls go at it.

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Thats a great short story! Nice to see people comfortable with each other to let things happen without a "big plan" and just enjoy sex.

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Well, there ya go. You liked it. They liked it. Everybody was comfortable.

 

So lets all have some ice cream!!!

 

I'm glad it worked out for you....sounds H-O-T....enough to melt ice cream...:)

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Well, guys often get turned on by two girls touching each other, and I know quite a few women who wish they could see two guys touching each other.

 

I once had the pleasure to see two guys getting each other off while I was with them and it's one of the best things I ever got to see

 

I really wish that guys could get over their fear of becoming gay or disgust even thinking about having to see this in a club, so the bi-courius of comfortable men would not have to hold it back when the mood strikes

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I really don't have a fear of becoming gay. Nor do I hold the act in disgust. I'm quite secure in myself.

 

Simply doesn't hold any interest in me, much like, say, needlepoint.

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Have all of you noticed how this is becoming more and more accepted? If you were to go back just a few years ago and read a thread similar to this one the responses might have been very different.

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"I see her husband reach over to my husband abd start rubbing his balls, then stroking his cock, my husband laid back and let it happen"

 

OMG :eek: eeeeewwwwwwwwww!

 

NOT for Ross, NO way, NO how Sorry, but I'd rather screw your grandmother.

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We have noticed that it is becoming more and more acceptable, not at swing clubs, but at house parties. Roaming hands in a bubbling jacuzzi or fumbling hands in a staged DP. My wife loves it when it happens.

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It was nice because everything seemed so right that night. But it isn't something we would normally encourage and my husband didn't say it was something he would desire to do on a regular basis. I think the important thing is the four of have been together quite a few times, and we have had situations where all of us were connected together in some fashion, so this night, being so comfortable with each other, all so horny, it worked out.

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I have a girlfriend who is straight. When I spoke to her about feeling abit behind the times because I have no intrest in having sex with women, she commented that for the most part neither does she. But there was this one time that everything just clicked with her and another woman and they played and had a great time doing it.

She has never felt that connection with another woman since.

So go with the flow, it could have been the heat of the moment or a connection between the guys.

Nothing for others to get worked up about.

 

Last comment was not directed at you Chris, you made your point clear and in a gentlemanly manner. As for needle point, what the heck is the matter with needle point? are you a needle pointaphobic?:mad:

 

Your friend,

Prettylady:kissface:

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This sounds almost identical to our experience. We have regular sex with another couple with whom we have very good chemistry. Our husbands are straight, but us wives often enjoy exploring our bisexuality while the husbands lay back and masturbate to the visual delights. During one of these times, as the husbands were reclined side-by-side stroking themselves as usual, her husband spontaneously reached over with his free hand and cupped my husband's balls. I saw a look of hesitation on my husband's face, as if he didn't know what to do. But to my surprise (and excitement), my husband continued to stroke himself. Then, after about a minute, I watched my husband reach over with his free hand and cup her husband's balls. It's an erotic visual that's been burned into my memory.

 

Afterwards, I discussed it with my husband. He said he couldn't explain it; his reaction was something totally unexpected. He was definitely startled when her husband began to handle his balls, but he said he was so aroused and stiff from watching us and stroking himself that the extra stimulation on his scrotum felt undeniably good and he couldn't bring himself to stop the situation despite himself. At that point, the situation had become so sexually charged that it just felt natural to touch feel his balls as well. If it had been with any other couple or at any different time in our lives or if any of the details of the moment had been different, he said that nothing like that would ever have happened or crossed his mind.

 

After that time, there has been a new level of sexual intimacy between us and the other couple, and there has been a further evolution of sexual activities we have been exploring together. Things have never felt more erotic.

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Last comment was not directed at you Chris, you made your point clear and in a gentlemanly manner. As for needle point, what the heck is the matter with needle point? are you a needle pointaphobic?:mad:

 

No offense was implied or assumed. But thank you.

 

As for needlepoint... well, all that thrusting in the fabric, drawing the thread in and out... pushing the needle in deeper and deeper. Well, it all makes me feel kinda funny in the pants. ;)

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Nice to hear of another person with the same experience. I don't know about you but that night was so wonderful, it made me realize why I like the lifestyle.

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We used to have threesomes with a guy who once reached over and cupped my balls at the same time that he was playing with my wife. I certainly wasn't repulsed, but I was so taken by surprise that I did not reciprocate. I now think that he was really inviting me to play with him at the same time he was playing with her. I would have done it had I had more time to think about it, but I am so leery of making a mistake that I did not do it. The opportunity never came again.

 

Several years ago at InTouch in St Louis (remember that?) there was a session for guys who wanted a bi experience. Women were invited, too. We went to it but left because my wife was not feeling well. There were guys playing with each other, and I could easily have joined in. I have been sorry ever since that I did not stay on to see and feel what it would have been like. (In the end, I was told afterwards, the guys all ended up screwing the one woman who did stay behind. So now I am really sorry that I did not stay!!!!)

 

Now we are connected with a couple, both of whom say they are bi-curious. They say that they are basically straight (as are we), and the bi part of the relationship is just to expand their range of experiences. That's OK with us!

 

My wife likes to be played with by another woman but does not want to be obligated to reciprocate. I want to experiment with him and feel what it is like. So maybe in the next few weeks or months we will find out. It may be one of those "it just feels right " moments. I hope so. Wish us luck.

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Have all of you noticed how this is becoming more and more accepted? If you were to go back just a few years ago and read a thread similar to this one the responses might have been very different.

 

Perhaps right.

 

I hope so, at least. :)

 

-B

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I fALL IN Chris's catagory on this, good for y'all, just not my cup o tea, and I feel the same way about needle point as well ::P: all in all I seem to recall some old posts of such nature and they were rather ..... well unacepting back then. As is with all things swing it is an evolution, we started off with a long list of dos and don'ts and over time and with comfort things evolve, and just as with all evolution not every thing evolve the same and a good thing too!! Else you would all look like my sister and I would be all freaked out swinging :P

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J is waaaaay too straight for that....

but It's been a secret fantasy of mine....

 

Maybe that's why I love gay men so much... great post, gives food for thought..

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I'm straight but I don't mind a bit of male male play, have wondered for a long time how it felt to suck cock tried it loved it, but will only do it in a MFMF,MFM situation.

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lol, I gotta ask. How is somebody "too straight"? :cool:

 

He lets me play back there, but mention the idea of a male doing it, and he pulls that macho hell no attitude..... lol

 

There are guys that enjoy just a little bit of that sort of play and still call themselves straight, so J's too straight for it...lol

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I love the man on man action (we limit it to oral/manual only for obvious reasons). It's a huge turn on for me.

 

In fact, this thread is going to make me have to go have an orgasm. Woot!

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At one point in my life I was actively bi-curious. I have not had the opportunity in a LONG time.

 

I would not shy away from it if we were all comfortable with each other's sensuality.

 

Great to hear you all had fun. :D

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My wife invited a "boyfriend" over after I got home late last Saturday night. I've met him before after a motel date they'd had. She told me that he was bringing his bag of tricks, which included an assortment of nylons, panties and lipstick. Some time after midnight when I'd had a couple of Crown Royals and gone to bed, he came in and blew me. She took vids and photos. It felt great and I was super horny for the next coupla' days. We're on flickr: hollywoodclem

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