04-29-2005, 01:32 PM
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We are new with very little experience but before we were aware of swinging I always had a feeling about my husbands former boss. It was the way he looked at me whenever we were at a company dinner. One time he asked hubby if he could kiss me. Now that I think about it I bet he was a swinger, and I just didn't know but there was a definate vibe with him. I didn't know the wife as well but she was always with him and knew what he was doing. The funny thing is I probably would have considered swinging with them if he had asked! I always thought he was hot!
01-03-2006, 01:28 AM
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Well, I was about to say that the vibes can be perceived even by vanilla people, even when they cannot interpret them properly.
Originally Posted by ohcpl43952
Before we come into the swingers arena, the swinging subject never brings up with out vanilla friends and known people chats, and I mean people we hang up since 20 years ago.
After few months of BHS (becoming happy swingers) we began to suspect we had "swingers" signs in our foreheads, suddenly the same vanilla people, separatelly and in several oportunities start talknig about swinging or some related stuff, I mean from commenting about being curious to go to a swinger club, talking about how odd a gal would feel with another gal in a threesome, and so forth.
In the other hand, we're friend of this couple who already told us before that they had a threesome with another gal (they were throwing a line that we didn't grab and politely made clear we rejected), and several months after we BHS, this guy openly made an invitation (we rejected again, just a matter of taste, yuck).
And yes, it happend to me to notice the vibes from a couple of couples around us, but since we hang up in the same vanilla group, they may believe we're vanilla too (even if they feel the vibes), and in fact, we wouldn't make a move inside that group, so... it's hard to tell.
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