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Anyone have any tips for increasing sensitivity while using condoms? I've heard some people put a little extra lube on the inside of the condom, but I'd be a little worried it would fall off during intercourse then.

 

We've been using lifestyles skyn and some other assortments of lifestyles condoms, and they all seemed pretty much the same to me. The people we tend to play with almost always have a latex allergy so non-latex is the way to go.

 

Keeping hard isn't the problem... but getting "there" is! I usually get tired, call it a night, and plan on finishing with my wife after. But it's just a little downer not to be able to get there with a play partner.

 

I've only came twice so far using condoms with play partners and it's quite frustrating. I'm sure a big part of it is mental and not just the condoms, but it sure could help to have a little help. lol!

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Mr. Fuse would also be interested in recommendations. Seems like he is the same type as Mr. Truelove. He has no problem getting hard or staying hard, but with a condom it's difficult for him to have an orgasm. It tends to frustrate his partners, especially because he likes oral a different way than most guys, so very few playmates have gotten him off that way either.

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Have sex at home with a condom too. After awhile his sensitivity will reset to have an orgasm with a condom more easily. The downside will be having a short trigger without a condom after the reset.

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Have you tried Kimono MicroThin? I started using these after they where recommended by someone on here a few years ago. I believe I ordered them online at one point, but these are about the only condom that I have ever used that I was able to climax with.

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VanHlebar said:
Have you tried Kimono MicroThin? I started using these after they where recommended by someone on here a few years ago. I believe I ordered them online at one point, but these are about the only condom that I have ever used that I was able to climax with.

 

{Giggle} Mr. Fuse just looked these up on Google shopping and sorted by price. The first entry was a 3-pack being sold on eBay, marked "Used". :eek:

 

Ha ha ha haha!!!

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{Giggle} Mr. Fuse just looked these up on Google shopping and sorted by price. The first entry was a 3-pack being sold on eBay, marked "Used". :eek:

 

Ha ha ha haha!!!

 

HAHA! I've seen women's used underwear online before, but used condoms is a first for me!

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Well I guess what you want:

1. Increased sensitivity - short intercourse

2. Less sensitivity - longer intercourse

 

and always open the condom before you go to bed ..opening the stuff in the middle of the game is just pain in the neck especially if your fingers are wet..:-)

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My only caveat to this statement...

 

1. Increased sensitivity - short intercourse

2. Less sensitivity - longer intercourse

 

...less sensitivity can also result in a loss of erection due to a total lack of sensation.

 

 

I've needed months to re-train myself to the sensation of intercourse with a condom (being in a monogamous relationship for three years did have SOME benefits) ... and those first few times back under the latex were really frustrating!!

 

I recently heard someone mention that trying "magnum" sized condoms might be better (even though I am hardly of ...ahem... magnum-proportions) ... it did help a bit - there wasn't the same tight restrictiveness that I was feeling with some of the others I've tried ...but it also wasn't as much sensation.

 

And in my own personal experience... those "reduce sensation" condoms which are chemically treated with a minor numbing agent... just end up making me feel like I had no penis at all!!! :surrend:

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With there being more and more people with latex sensitvity, i've taken to using non-latex condoms. Trojan Supras seems to work with good response from the women. I don't usually come with a condom, and sometimes don't come at all (see related threads). I don't mind fucking longer...:D

Dont like the real tight ones tho..........

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Mr. Fuse ordered some Kimono MicroThins (don't worry, he's not getting the "used" ones referenced to above). :D We'll report back!

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I recently heard someone mention that trying "magnum" sized condoms might be better (even though I am hardly of ...ahem... magnum-proportions) ... it did help a bit - there wasn't the same tight restrictiveness that I was feeling with some of the others I've tried ...but it also wasn't as much sensation.

 

I'm not of magnum size but gave them a try. I wound up being too worried about it slipping off. I decided to try a magnum as it just seems after awhile the condom gets so jammed down on they head of my penis that it's just feels like it's in a vise!

 

I have found that the best way for me to cum is to take is to take it slow and focus..sometimes hard in the heat of things!

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VanHlebar said:
Have you tried Kimono MicroThin? I started using these after they where recommended by someone on here a few years ago. I believe I ordered them online at one point, but these are about the only condom that I have ever used that I was able to climax with.

 

That was probably me who recommended them, they are the only ones that work at all for me. All the others I have tried is like a shot of Novocain, can't feel a darn thing. On the down side though, they are latex, so they won't work if someone has latex allergies.

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I might have to try those. According to their website, looks like most drugstores carry them, maybe I'll stop in a grab a pack...

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I'm not of magnum size but gave them a try. I wound up being too worried about it slipping off.

 

I bought the magnums too.. they were $7.99 plus tax.. I heard that the tax were to keep them from coming off. (might be a bit painful though)..:D

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Mr. Fuse ordered some Kimono MicroThins (don't worry, he's not getting the "used" ones referenced to above). :D We'll report back!

 

:lol: Glad to know he splurged on the new package. :D

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I bought the magnums too.. they were $7.99 plus tax.. I heard that the tax were to keep them from coming off. (might be a bit painful though)..:D

 

Tacks work, but I use staples. :)

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+1 on the Kimono Microthins (if you're with someone without a latex allergy). After being monogamous (read "bareback") for 20+ years, they're the only ones I don't have a problem with.

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The first Kimono Microthin was "field-tested" last night. Mr. Fuse said it felt good, though it wasn't an immediate "wow there's a huge difference" type of sensation compared to the other types he's tried. So he thinks they're an improvement, but not necessarily a miracle.

 

He did have an orgasm, which often doesn't happen with a condom. It stayed on fine too.

 

So, I think we have a winner here. Thanks for the recommendation!

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The Fuse said:
The first Kimono Microthin was "field-tested" last night. Mr. Fuse said it felt good, though it wasn't an immediate "wow there's a huge difference" type of sensation compared to the other types he's tried. So he thinks they're an improvement, but not necessarily a miracle.

 

He did have an orgasm, which often doesn't happen with a condom. It stayed on fine too.

 

So, I think we have a winner here. Thanks for the recommendation!

 

Woohooo :D Glad we got a winner!

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Crown condoms. THE BEST! You won't find them at Walgreen's. Its worth the purchase.

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I tried to find Kimono Microthins locally. But I came up empty handed. Looks like if I want some I am going to have to order them online.

 

I did try a brand called Lifestyles Triple pleasure, and those were not too bad. I was able to get there with them.

 

Still want to try the others though...

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