My policy thus far has been to only play with singles who are divorced or single, not in a committed relationship. We don't want to be drawn into drama, shoot outs or legal issues.
Recently I talked to a "single" guy who is separated but they are not planning to divorce due to legal issues and having children. He says his wife is also seeing other people and aware that he is.
What do you think about this situation? Is this equivalent to a married couple with hall passes (something we'd be ok with)?