She said he gave her the best fuck she's ever had. Problem?

So, we found a guy who might be a good fit. Well, things went real fast and we played with him lol. Had a great time. Now, not trying to be crude, the guy was very well hung and, in her words, it was the best she has ever been fucked.

She says I'm a great lover but that was the best out and out just sex fuck, no emotions. So, guys and girls, is that ok she said that? No way was she putting me down. Reassured me that I do it for her in the sex department love making.

Now I am not jealous at all, in fact, it was so hot watching and joining in. Just checking this is not a red flag I should be looking for.

I have always enjoyed my wife playing and having a great time with our longtime friend and playmate. She has both played with him alone at his house and in threesomes with him and me at our house. All have been very exciting to me and the more turned on my wife gets, the more I enjoy it. I have never been jealous.

There is a big difference between "sport fucking" and making love. You can like both, it sounds like you guys had a very successful encounter. Congratulations.

It was probably our 5th mom and the other guy happened to be hung, about 9”. We had seen the guy naked, it was in the dunes at a place where folks sun bathe (and play) nude. The thing was, he didn’t look any bigger than any one else, except he was 6’4” or so. So hubby and I were playing when he joined in. When I started sucking it, it just kept growing I just kept sucking. I became fascinated with it, seeing how much I could get down my throat, etc. Then, when he started to fuck me, I cautioned him to be gentle because it was so big. While, one he worked it in, moved it to and fro a few times ever so gently, I just went crazy and banged the heck out of him. Had never done that before. Afterwards, I thought hubby is going to be jealous because I was so aggressive with it, but he wasn’t. Saw it as it was, just a new and intense experience, totally sexual. Even after I suggested that we go back the next day and again the next weekend to see if the guy was there, hubby entertained my fantasy of having it again but just laughed because I had always been a "size doesn’t matter” kind of girl. So, just view it as one of those reasons you had wanted to do mfm with your wife, to see her enjoy new experiences.

I don't see any red flags, she even assured you the boundary between just sex & lovemaking. The only possible little red flag I see is the very fact you are posting this question. Is there a trace of doubt in you about this encounter at the moment? Any possible reason you ask strangers if it is okay?

Davee, I don't see any red flags in what you've told us. If she enjoyed the guy, I'm glad she felt comfortable in telling you so! And if you found it to be a turn- on, along with being happy for her, then it sounds like all's well. As you examine your own feelings, are you certain that you're cool with how things went?

Thanks for the replies. Not jealous at all, was just asking if the red flag was her telling me how good the sex was. I love seeing her with others having fun. We played in the past and this was the first time she told me how good someone was. I am happy she had a great time.

Thanks for the replies. Not jealous at all, was just asking if the red flag was her telling me how good the sex was. I love seeing her with others having fun. We played in the past and this was the first time she told me how good someone was. I am happy she had a great time.

That's great! The Mrs. and I have a habit of giving each other a full report on our playtimes, and we often talk about how good things were with our play partner. To me, it seems like a healthy way to reinforce the trust between you- not to mention how hot it is to share the details, and possibly start the next round of fun!

Telling you she had a great fuck was an expression of how comfortable she is with any truth, even if it's amazing sex. The first time we swung, the new guy was also the best fuck I had ever had. I wasn't comfortable enough with Alex to tell him that part of the experience and I wish I had been. It didn't create any problems per se, and he could tell anyway, but I sure wish I had been able to tell him that, it would have been a complete expression of the experience.

I asked if it was a red flag because she said it was the best fuck she had ever had. Now thanks to the nice replies I am reassured that this is a good thing she can be so honest. I was just a bit worried about it that's all. Must say the guy could go for a long time and he did fuck her like crazy.

He may have been the best fuck she ever had, but you were the one who was willing to let her experience this...and she's still coming home with you.

There is a big difference between "sport fucking" and making love. You can like both, it sounds like you guys had a very successful encounter. Congratulations.

This is probably the major reason Mrs. Alura and I began swinging. We found that, no matter how hard we tried to "fun fuck," we always ended up seriously expressing our love. We found when we tried swinging, that it was true, we could still "fuck for fun" with people we didn't love, thus having the best of both worlds.

Our first (other than a brief experiment with "hot wifing") swinging experience involved an unusually large fellow. He said he had nine and a half inches, which Laura claimed to have verified. She knew her knuckles were four inches across. Holding his cock in both hands, she still had "about an inch and a half in my mouth."

Because of the noise coming (so to speak) from the bedroom, Mrs. Playmate and I went to have a look. We were greeted with one of the most erotic scenes I've experienced. Mr. Playmate was between Mrs. Alura's spread thighs, her toes pointing at the ceiling, hands firmly holding his ass in place while enthusiastically welcoming that pounding giant as it plunged repeatedly. Their mouths were firmly locked in a deep kiss and I knew (confirmed later) that she was experiencing a mighty climax.

Unfortunately, Mrs. Playmate thought Laura had had far too much fun. We never played with them again.

Thanks for the story. That was my thought, that she had too much fun. Not being crude but fucked too well if you like. But it was just fun for a night.

I think you are good. There is always going to be another guy that is either longer or bigger. I am 7.5" long with 5.5" girth and that is too big for some. Try to get her to enjoy DP and DVP play. Maybe even get a little contact with the guy. The best threesomes are when both guys work to pleasure the lady. Also, maybe you want to try other things like a GB. Be open and honest. If you have any feelings of jealousy, discuss them before continuing. Congrats on the fun you had. Marc