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I have seen posts on here about cuckolding but nothing on cuckqueans. My wife and I experimented with swinging and went to some parties and did some mild playing between the girls and same room sex with our own after the girls played but it wasn't exactly our ideal. As we have evolved what has come about is my wife is dying to be cuckqueaned by me.

 

Some of the scenarios we have played with is me finding a playmate and telling my wife all the details of what we do while we are having sex. Some other ideas were her watching us have sex or just a threesome. I am looking for advice on where best to look for women to fill the role, discretion is important as keeping this between parties involved for numerous reasons is a must. Adult dating (ex. Ashley Madison) sites all seem like nothing but a scam so I am leery. We are lifetime SLS members but I tend to question whether the single women on there are legit or creeper scammers. Anyone have any advice on finding singles for what we are looking for?

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Hi Cuckqueanhubby! Well I am a single female on SLS so I feel compelled to post a reply. I've never heard of cuckqueaning but I'm guessing its the same as cuckholding but the man has sex in front of his woman with another woman. I can assure you that some of us singles on SLS are legit. Personally I would be open to cuckqueaning, if I understand it correctly. I enjoy being with couples that are in it to pleasure each other. I'm honored to be invited into a dynamic where the couple wants to pleasure each other, which demonstrates their love for one another. I think you should screen a single the same way you would screen a couple. I tend to stick with playmates that have certifications, pictures and experience. Obviously it should be someone you are physically attracted to as well. Then simply discuss it with the single. Either they are into it or not. I would also suggest a fetish-specific site like FetLife where they may be more familiar with cuckqueaning.

 

Please let us know how it goes. Personally I would be interested in learning more about cuckqueaning & I bet other members of this forum would be as well. Good luck and thank you for posting the question!

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You can really do this one through women you meet in the real world or any bar/club as today there are tons of single, desirable women into married men. Just watch out for the gold diggers of course. Mistresses & affairs as a old as people, cock queening is just good version of these harmful relationships. If you are having friendly flirtations with a woman moving into the things you and your wife want is a pretty short step.

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. . . cock queening . . .
Spelling it this way takes me a step closer to what this activity might actually be. I'm eager to hear the OP's explanation of the meaning.

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Why is it spelled that way? It seems like it should be cuckqueen.

 

Anyhow, I'm not a cuckqueen, but I'm open to playing all sorts of ways.

 

I'm not a single female, but if friends I played with wanted me to play with the husband while she watched I would be into it.

 

My husband and I have a girlfriend we play with. All three of us play together, but one of my favorite things is to watch him fuck her. I have asked him to play with her while I'm out of town and then send me a couple pics or texts about it, but it hasn't happened yet. It would also be fun for her to tie me up then fuck him. This is someone I know very well and really trust.

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I have no idea why it's spelled that way but that is the correct spelling. The situation you described is very close to what we are looking for. The difficulty of finding someone like you have is that we have no one so it will be a stranger. While swingers understand discretion and respect privacy strangers may not have the same respect. I am doing this to fulfill my wife's fantasy with some great benefits for myself, however the repercussions of me being labeled a "cheater" personally and professionally could be very damaging. This is all part of the dilemma of finding the right girl to get involved with.

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This is what we were looking for when we joined the site. A cuckquean discussion. Me and my girlfriend are exploring this area as she suggested it and regularly suggests we find another female to bring in for me to play around with while she watches and/or listens. It is also rather hard to find a female easily joined into the scenario. She's even pushed forwards towards a poly amorous type situation suggesting sex and emotional involvement with another. She's highly expressed no desire for other men and we've talked about that multiple times over the course of this last year. But, as the sub she is, she would most definitely do as I say - if I did want another male in the situation. She lives to please. Most amazing woman I've ever been with, to say it shortly.

 

But again, like Cuckqueanhubby mentioned: finding someone outside your normal circle (on a professional level) is hard to do. Although, we do frequent strip clubs and have made some friends here and there - explored lightly but haven't had our desires totally fulfilled.

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My master and I have many girlfriends to play with. discretion is important as we both are associated with BDSM world and have professional careers and the M/s relationship is based on trust system. We are adonis trio FFM. Sometimes I like to watch. Sometimes I participate. Mostly we pick submissive slaves as my bicuriousity is very dom oriented. Where as I personally am very submissive for my master.

 

Workshops, seminars, and gatherings that have to do with human sexuality or intimacy are good meeting points for finding like-minded girls. Tantra retreats or Swinger conventions are good options. or you can also go for a “clothes optional” holiday. Naturists are usually open-minded individuals. When I used to live in Europe, Ibiza and Montpellier France used to be my destinations. Now in USA and in a M/s relationship my master take care of all needs. I strictly keep off internet for my search. First there are reliability and discretion issues. Now I am part of "a cult" you can say which satisfies all the needs without judgement.

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