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So today my wife has now gone out to meet a guy by herself. This is not the first time she has played by herself, but this is the first time she has gone out with a purpose to have sex. The other times it was more of a moment just came about and she ended up playing but not having intercourse.

 

This guy is actually someone who she has played with before at a party, but never got to finish with him. She at the time was wanted by more then a couple of guys, so in that situation she was enjoying a different role. After that party she did mention this particular guy on separate occasions when we were alone. She even mentioned that she really wanted to just lock herself and him in the bathroom and enjoy that guy by herself.

 

For me her going on her own has always been a turn-on, in fact we started our lifestyle this way in some form. Mostly through talking and me encouraging her to flirt with guys and tease. She did this with a few and over time we ended up in a few MFM threesome situations. I know she really enjoys the attention and sexual nature of "new flesh" as she says. I also know that the idea of her playing without me around also is a huge turn-on to her. For me I don't have a problem with other guys, we also have different "tools" and styles to bring to the party.

 

Sitting here now I can feel my emotions getting excited without the knowledge of what is happening. There is certainly a new dimension to our play with this experience so far.

 

So here I am on my wait to find out the details of her adventure.

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That is so great that you get excited by your wife's pleasure. My husband and I play separately quite a bit and I am always really happy for him to be enjoying the pleasure of a new woman.

 

Unlike a lot of people though, we don't get specifically turned on by the after-stories. For me it's more about being happy for my husband and the fun he gets to have. And also.....knowing that he's going to give me the same opportunity.

 

;)

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Yes seeing and hearing about her pleasure is a big turn on for me. Probably why I am not so pushy about another woman. If it happens great, but I get a lot out of seeing her in a different state then we are normally. It all ads to our great sex too. So it's a win win really. I like to hear the stories and even enjoy role playing those events with her.

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YES!

 

Our most intriguing fantasy is that we would be "admitted" to a close group of trusted friends--friends who swing bareback and are trusted to be DD free. Of course, this means that everyone would already know each other and be comfortable with everyone and willing to spend the night and in fact, have probably been doing this for awhile and are comfortable with it. Except that we would be the "newbies", having met everyone and enjoy their company, but never having had sex with any of them. This would be our "initiation."

 

The "arrangement" is that the group would start off with separate "dinner parties"--no spouses--at one of the F houses, or even at a restaurant. And at dinner, those couples would decide who would spend the night with whom, at the F house. Or--they could agree to remain together as a foursome or even sixsome depending on how many participants.

 

The other spouse would experience the same thing at a separate "dinner party." Neither spouse would know with whom their spouse was that night, or were there several? The excitement of experiencing a first swing sex partner (or partners) would be enriched by the thought of your spouse also being with another partner or partners--and you wouldn't know who--so imagination would provide even more sexual arousal just wondering about it.

 

We've discussed this, and the "intrigue" would send us both over the top with anticipation and excitement. All men would agree to leave promptly at 8 a.m. the next morning, just to avoid any possible "awkward" situations, although that shouldn't be a problem among friends.

 

We both think that it would be so awesome to just greet each other the next morning, knowing that the other just had their first experience(s) and then share every detail about what happened while pleasing each other would make an unbelievable satisfying experience.

 

Sounds good on paper at least!

 

Has anyone ever done this?

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i think its great that you are ok with her going out with another man, i bet the whole anticipation turns you on while she is getting ready in the bathroom or picking out the right outfit to look sexy .

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To be followed with the tales of how she fell for one of her boyfriends.

 

Swinging is playing with fire to an extent, but this is playing with matches and gasoline. It takes very special people for it to work like this long term. Special people who can completely separate sex from love. In swinging its easier because you are always with your spouse, you interact together and you go home together. With this is almost no different than dating, you know dating like when you got together with your wife in the first place.

 

So good luck in the long run.

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Wife an I have an open marriage as well. Sometimes she goes to a fb house specifically to get fucked. Other times she is just out and knows she has all the freedoms of a single woman. I find it very erotic to here about her adventures. That is probably why she plays solo with any regularity. We have found that there are not a lot of couples like us and have actually had some give us dirty looks when we tell them. Oh well, it works for us.

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YES!

 

 

The "arrangement" is that the ......

 

the "intrigue" would send us both over the top with anticipation and excitement.......

 

...... it would be so awesome to just greet each other the next morning, ..........

would make an unbelievable satisfying experience.

 

yes, this is exactly what I have be experienced.

 

I now figure it out more:

the satisfaction from swinging type sex is much more than which in "normal" usual marriages.

because we practice and then learned "not to possess" our spouse or any other person,

and, in return, it give us much more joy and satisfaction from the relationship with our spouse.

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Everyone is, indeed, entitled to his own opinion. Nevertheless, Chicup has been around here long enough to know that, way too often, when we get a thread dealing with this subject (more often than one might think) it often ends in the worst kind of disaster for the couple who thought it might add spice to their marriage.

 

Whether the "Hot Wife Lifestyle" is or is not a part of swinging must be answered by those affected. I would concur that it is not. In my opinion, to be "swinging" (a modern term that replaced "wife swapping") a couple must be involved. When one sits home, whether sexual arousal is present or not, that spouse is not swinging.

 

The term "swinging" and what it means has been discussed ad nauseum; this thread will not settle the question.

 

Alura

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I agree with you Alura, the big reason we're getting into swinging is that this is something we want to do together. The thrill of seeing each other or participating in each other's pleasure is a big turn on for us. We don't have any desire to play separately, that's just us-not our style. If this works for them, well who am I to say they're wrong.

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