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I haven't seen any posts on here on this so I thought I would ask some opinions on it. My husband and I have been married only three years, and have one young son. Since we have been married his career takes him away from home nine months out of the year so we haven't explored much in the LS. We made a couples page a couple years ago but only recently have made local contacts on there. Since then a few swingers have found both our personal pages and added us on there as well. We do most things together so that isn't an issue. They made a group where people post nude pics and such on there and that doesn't bother me either.

 

My husband has suggested being more interactive on there, post some pics, and flirt around with others. I have concerns...I am the slower paced on here! We do have accounts on SLS and SDC and are listed as soft on there. We have never full swapped only a few girl/girl experiences, that is about it. We both have had some experiences in the LS before our relationship, he more than I. I have had problems with pushy people in the past so I feel flirting around can lead others on. Also, I am more on the timid side of sharing nude pics of myself. I really would rather wait until we can meet some of the them in person before interacting that way online.

 

Thoughts on any of this would be appreciated! TIA

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Welcome, coastalcpl! If you're the partner who is "slower paced" then I would follow your gut instinct and do what makes you comfortable. Have you had the chance to tell your husband about how you feel about flirting and sharing nude pictures?

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Thank you! Yes, I have told him how I feel about it. Some of the people on there are very inside out lol. That is just not my thing. I would rather get to know people in person rather than be flirtatious with ppl I haven't met at all online. It would be awkward seeing them at an event and feel I was interested in doing more than just flirting online in person.

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Some people like the online sexting stuff, and others don't. If it is something you aren't into, then I would just steer clear of it just like you would any other swinging activity you aren't interested in.

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