Do you play in your own bedroom when swinging at home?

We are about to do a first for us, and that is play in our own home. Not a house party really, just us and another couple. We have done the same scenario before with different people, but we were the guests then. They liked separate room and we were up for it, so after some hot tub time, we just followed their lead and paired up in different bedrooms.

When we started swinging, we both agreed we weren't interested in swinging at home, so there goes another rule out the window. Before we decided to extend the invitation this time, we talked about it and agreed that we wouldn't play in our bedroom, instead preferring to just make an impromptu play area in the living room or den when the time arrives. We converted our spare bedroom to a TV room for our teenager several years ago since we rarely have overnight company, so there really isn't a spare bed to make use of that doesn't feel like "ours".

What about you, do you play in your own bedroom? If not, why?

We don't play at home a lot either, but when we do, we'll pile on the bed in our bedroom. It has never been a big deal for us, and we know the arena pretty well.

Enjoy your date!

We usually don't host, but the few times we have we've used our bedroom/bed. And the couch. And the shower. And the kitchen table.

It also didn't seem like a big deal to us, and since all of our sex-related goodies (toys, condoms, etc) are stored in the bedroom, it made sense to us.

We came to a similar agreement once after an mfm in our bedroom. Honestly, I couldn't get the images of the time we spent there with the other guy out of my mind when we tried to sleep. This wore off after a few days, luckily...or unluckily for my husband...I was quite aroused (hehe). We then took to enjoying friends in our spare room. However, we invited a couple over and thought the best place for it would be our room, as we also have a loveseat in there. After that, it just kinda continued. My issue with replaying the scene wore off and now we don't give it any thought. We have the guest room and an office area now with a spare bed too. It doesn't matter where we end up.

We used our bedroom. In fact, I still sleep in the king-sized bed we bought with swinging in mind.

After the kids came, to entertain was rarer; we often played during the daytime when they were in school, or went they were at their grandparents overnight.

Alura

We play in our bedroom ,most of the time. We have a media/rec. room that we use as well. We throw a lot of big pillows on the rug which gives us a lot of room, when the whole group is here. We also shipped the kids out to Grandma's for quite a few weekends. Not a problem for the last 20 plus years. If we swung out of our group, I don't know if I would feel the same way about the bedroom. I have no plans to find out.

Sara

Sometimes all of us go into our bedroom and other times we stay in the living room and put futon cushions on the floor. It just depends, we don't really plan a place to play when we host, it just works out that way.

We usually use our bedroom at some point when we have friends over. But we usually start somewhere else, like around the hot tub, then into the living room, then up to the bed room. Kind of a progression. We have had several meets where we have all fallen a sleep in our bed and woke up the next morning all together. That invariably leads to more sex which is fun.

If we are playing same room we play in our bedroom - king size bed makes for more play area.

If we are playing separately, one of us picks a spare bedroom. When we host parties we also offer our bedroom as an option for playing - again because of the king size bed.

Like OCC we have hosted couples who have fallen asleep with us...always fun and cozy!

We don't entertain at home much but when we do we usually have our fun downstairs where we have a finished walk out basement with a hot tub right outside. Down there we have another living room, guest room, full bathroom and plenty of space to set up our sex chair or swing if we desire. The lights are dimmed, the stereo is on, a nice smelling candle is usually lit and the ambiance is set.

We have used our room but it's small and inefficient and I prefer to go to bed at the end of the night in a clean made bed, not one that is messy and smells like sweaty sex from 4+ people. I sleep better that way

We have used our bed in our bedroom. We know where things are in there. It's never been a biggie to me to use it and I wouldn't have thought not to use it.

The very first time we played with another couple at their house, they used the spare bedroom. Go figure.

We have played ONCE in a couple's bedroom. Every other time it has been somewhere else.

Quick answer is yes we do.

Since it's the most comfortable place to have sex why not. Doesn't mean we haven't used the couch, love seat, as well.

When we are entertaining another couple we invariably end up in our bedroom. We have a king size bed of course which is ideal for a sexual encounter involving four people. If we have a larger group over we usually set up a large play area in our basement family room which is next to the room where we have our hot tub. But our bedroom is always available for any one who wishes to use it.

We have yet to host since we've gotten a king size bed... We need to get active and find some people to invite over!!

We always entertain in our bedroom. We have a California King (6" larger than King) so there's almost more room there than on the floor... admittedly, it's a bit unusual.. 30' x 30' with two seating areas, one in front of a fireplace and one with a cocktail table in front of a 92" tv. This is where we go with ALL friends.. the formal living room is for general entertaining and strangers.

We set up the open room, then cab or let our guest's stay in the room till morning. If the guest stays, only the two of us go into our room. Not a bad rule for us.

We play in our own house only with close friends. A hotel is better than home for those general swinger friends; I found a suite is better for sex parties.

For long term swinging friends, there's no such "how to leave politely" problem. Our own house is easy and the safest place in fact.

We've played in our room and in the guest room. Sometimes together and sometime in separate rooms.