I'm curious how many times it happen. Like the old saying it's a small world.

A few weeks ago me and my husband went to our local club to have fun and that. My husband noticed someone he recognized and it turned out to be his ex. She was his girlfriend before he meet me. They were together for 2 years. They broke off in good terms. Both felt that a long distance relationship would not work because where their University were and that.

We went over and talk. She was there with her husband. We talk and that. They have been swinging for just a year and married for 4.

We had a nice talk and that, but either of us did anything.

My question to you all is: Ever meet an ex at a swingers club, party, or resort? Were you two swingers or a vanilla couple at the time when you were dating? And what did you do afterwards when you meet them again after all those years?

Nope.

I lived with a guy for a few years before I met my current husband. He was always pressuring me to play with other girls and especially so in a party environment where the guys would all watch. He even tried to get me to to some south Pacific Island resort where a local female stays with you the entire time, basically for a week of FFM. I had no interest in that. My current hubby and I became “swingers” through MFM and now do swaps but nothing bi. We were having MFM at a regional couples club. When we finished, I noticed that my ex was there and suspected he had been watching. Later he sent me an email confirming he had watched, questioning why I had been so resistant to the things he wanted to do. I responded that Tom, my hubby had demanded nothing and allowed me to follow a path that I was comfortable with. I heard nothing more from him.

Which is probably why he is the EX husband!!

I met a ex-college girlfriend at a local swingers club once. At the time we'd gone out I hadn't even heard of swinging (this was when the internet was in its public infancy) but she did feature in my first MFF threesome. We carried a torch for each other for years. In fact, shortly after I got married my wife actually suggested I hook up with her (still pre-swinging). We never did.

Finally, by equal parts chance and design, we ended up at the club together... me alone and her with the rest of her kink/poly group. We still didn't play, but I left with a sense of closure that I'd been looking for for almost 20 years. It was nice.

I had a "not quite" girlfriend in college. We sere both biology nerds. She was pre-medtech and I was premed. She played clarinet in the band and I played the trombone/tuba. I was six feet tall and she was like six one. We both ended up going to the same dental school although at different times. Love to meet up with her at a swingers club some day.

I had a "not quite" girlfriend in college. We sere both biology nerds. She was pre-medtech and I was premed. She played clarinet in the band and I played the trombone/tuba. I was six feet tall and she was like six one. We both ended up going to the same dental school although at different times. Love to meet up with her at a swingers club some day.

Hell, the way you describe her, I think I'd like to meet up with her in a club some day too.

Never ran into anyone either of us know. Thank goodness...

It been nearly 4 years after I made this post, I am surprised that there not more replys then this.

Hard to speak for the distant past, but for the last 8 months of COVID life, the quiet seems to fit -- crowds are "so 2019"...

28 minutes ago, Fundamental Law said:

Hard to speak for the distant past, but for the last 8 months of COVID life, the quiet seems to fit -- crowds are "so 2019"...

I know Covid has stop swinging for a good number of people, but I meant before Covid

It wasn't at a club but a high school reunion where Laura met my high school sweetheart. Laura volunteered to pick up our kids at Grandma's, but urged Jill and me to stay and dance. Jill agreed to drive me home later. We had gone to the same dance school so we danced well together. We had never "gone all the way." During a slow dance, Jill whispered that she thought that was a pity. I told her I'd talk to Laura about Jill and I "fixing it." Jill was shocked that I could ask my wife such a thing. She thought about the idea and me and decided it made sense. We agreed to ask when she took me home.

Laura was enthusiastic but stipulated that she could do her (also previously not fucked) HS Sweetheart if she got the chance.

Jill and I spent the next afternoon in a hotel room, with a "Tryst Kit" prepared by Laura, a bottle of wine, two glasses, and a tube of flavored KY.

Laura wasn't as lucky. At her HS reunion, her former boyfriend was there and they danced. He never seemed to quite understand. His wife was a "clinger" and a lawyer.

I think he was wise.

Sticking with my most recent wife of 35 years. Have no exes.
Have met business associates at a swinger event and at a nudist resort. Awkward! But we are all there.

6 hours ago, Pklon said:

Ever meet an Ex at swingers club, party, or resort?

It been nearly 4 years after I made this post, I am surprised that there not more replys then this.

It probably doesn't happen often, so most folks, like me, simply have nothing to say. 

It's never happened to us, and unlikely for it to happen. Neither my wife nor I are native to the place where we live. She has no exes here, and what exes I did have here have since moved away.

Yes, one of my two ex-wives.  I got Kim  into swinging Kim & new hubby are swingers and we play together.  They had moved away, then moved back and I didn’t know. I was at a house party when Kim & mike arrived.  
 

a group of us were just standing around talking when they arrived, being quiet Kim walked up behind me, reached between my legs grabbed my cock. 
then she kissed me and started sucking. 
Then I leaned her on the couch back and started fucking her. 
 

My 2nd ex moved away and I don’t see her.