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The threesome choreography

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Ok so the next situation I'm going to ask about is positioning. I've heard several people speak about it gets awkward finding the right position during 3 ways. Who is the one who takes control and moves people around.

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It is usually a shared activity. One person will propose and direct how they see it, later someone else will. I mostly play in fmf threesomes and there are some really great things you can do. My favorite is to be underneath a couple in doggie style, licking them. Sometimes one of us comes up with an idea, we try it and laugh. Another good one is guy on his back, girl in cowgirl, other girl on his face, so girls facing and kissing, etc.

 

In my opinion, one of the most important things in a threesome is for everyone to responsible for their own pleasure, if you want something jump in or say something.

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In my opinion, one of the most important things in a threesome is for everyone to responsible for their own pleasure, if you want something jump in or say something.

This is true. Last night this actually was an issue for me. Long story short is after a several hour separate room swap, the four of us were back in one room together chilling. The girls were having fun and I felt left out. After talking to my wife afterwards she told me that no matter what I have an open invitation to get in there and get involved. I'm not to keen on simply watching and wanted to do something even if it was small. Turns out I was over thinking it and should have done something.

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Overanalyzing...damn you! I suffer from this same cursive condition. All too often it keeps me from having the fun that I want to have (I joke that I put the anal in analyzing). Sometimes the best thing to do is not to think about it, just ask or jump in.

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A long-term play-couple of ours both had jobs that required them to travel. We'd have our threesomes with the one who was in town. Not sure who the choreographer was but Laura had suggestions I'd not have wanted to have missed. :)

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Ok so the next situation I'm going to ask about is positioning. I've heard several people speak about it gets awkward finding the right position during 3 ways. Who is the one who takes control and moves people around.

 

Just simply let it directs itself as it happenes.

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Some guys are nervous about the idea of having sex with my wife in front of me. Those are the guys I try to reassure and find myself giving them directions from everything to taking off her clothes to cumming in her. Yes some guys will ask for permission.

 

Some men are not nervous at all and dive right in. I caught myself more than a few times being tempted to stop him when he was getting rough until it looked like she was enjoying it. She let someone have anal sex with her. She still doesn't let me do that but won't stop someone else from doing it. It would "spoil the moment" or she is "just being polite/doesn't want to be rude/doesn't want to be negative". I don't care. It is kind of sexy to me when someone takes control and they do something together in front of me that she wouldn't do if it was just the two of us. To me that makes our alone time more special and intimate.

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