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Ladies, how often do you orgasm when playing with a swing partner?

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A recent thread, Missionary and from Behind...What's the trick?, has inspired this question. When you go out to swing, how often do you orgasm with swing partners? Is it something you always try to attain or do you swing to have sex but do not put orgasming as a priority? As a comparison, do you orgasm more with your spouse/partner at home than with a swing partner? And, if so, why do you think that is?

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I orgasm with every partner at least once during oral. Most have also been able to get me off during intercourse. The few elite have helped me orgasm numerous times during the play session. When playing I absolutely look to orgasm and have no problems telling my pp exactly what I need to get me there.

 

My husband is a master at making me orgasm, I get off at least 3-4 times each love making session. I was not able to come during vaginal sex before him, I'm not sure what wizardry he did but I do with him and that has since been attainable with my play partners as well.

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Well, I have no idea with a swing partner, since we haven't had one yet, but it largely depends on how worked up I am. If I'm hot and bothered and we have enough foreplay, I almost always come, and it doesn't take much to push me over the edge. If we don't have time and have to do a quickie, or I'm just not in the mood to orgasm at that particular moment, then I sit back and enjoy the ride without caring if I ever reach the destination, so to speak.

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For us, it is sometimes for me and all the time for my husband. We like to meet couples who are new to this, and mostly couples where the woman has never been with another woman. My husband almost always gets me there, so I would say I have more at home. I do enjoy the sex and the excitement we bring to the other couple.

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Mrs. Enhancer is I guess what you would not call normal when it comes to orgasms! She cums very easily and very often. It is not often she does not reach double digits and normal for her to have up to 20 orgasms or more in a good session with anyone she plays with. Maybe a little more often when another woman is involved with her. She is also a heavy squirter so we always warn people ahead of time that things will be wet and messy. If that is going to be a problem then we can avoid getting together. For myself I often don't have an orgasm at all when playing with others, but it is not a big priority for me. I get more out of getting other people off then myself. It is probably safe to say we have more orgasms with each other simply, because we really know how to push each other's buttons from years of practice.

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I usually orgasm with my husband when we have time for foreplay and I like to use toys like a vibrating egg at the same time. I tend to orgasm with play partners if they give me oral sex and hit the right spot during intercourse. Since I don't usually cum during missionary, I actually like a guy who knows how to experiment with different positions. Like other posters say, it depends on my mood. If I want to cum, I am usually pretty vocal in telling my play partner what works for me.

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Mrs. CoupleInMD79 tends to have an orgasm most times with her play partner, as well as squirting once or twice. Is it a priority for her? Well, I think it's fair to say that it's usually a priority for her play partners! And honestly, if she doesn't cum at all during a play session, she will probably rate it as a "meh" play time. That said, she does not always have an earth-shattering "big-O", but nearly every time she has one or more "little-O's" at least. Also, since she's usually pretty vocal (I won't say verbal, because when she cums, she often seems to lose the power of speech, and makes indistinct noises rather than forming coherent words!), she puts on a pretty satisfying show for whoever is causing her orgasm.

 

When the Mrs. and I play together, I try to make damned sure she cums! First off, she has the ability to kill me in my sleep, so I'm well motivated to keep her happy. Second, I like the show, too! Third, I need to keep up with all the Studly Dorights out there that she is playing with, so I'm taking notes from anybody who finds another good way to get my wife off.

 

Sunbuckus, perhaps your last question was intending to shed some light on the issue of whether our women feel more relaxed at home, and have orgasms more frequently there because they feel a little less comfortable and free with play partners than with their significant others? On that score, I can report that my wife does on occasion feel a little less relaxed with play partners. This does not happen very often (we try to progress to playing only when we are both comfortable and relaxed with everybody), but occasionally she will discover once we get rolling that the guy is a terrible kisser, or is ham-handed or just a bit too rough. That may be one of those "little-O" or "no O" play sessions, or may be one that she rates as "meh" afterwards.

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I know my wife relaxes at home and orgasms a lot more at home than when we are out swinging. It has only been recently that she has relaxed into orgasm while we are out with me or any other play partner. She loves going out and doing this though as she keeps the experiences in her 'solodex'. Actually been noticing that now she is more relaxed when we go out it's like I've created and orgasmic monster :eek:

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I usually orgasm at home. My first time swinging I ORGASMED. We had swapped partners for the night. This was my first time with another man. He made me cum orally first. I think I just let myself go and let myself enjoy. Looking back I don't know why I wasn't scared. I also didn't think about my husband who was doing something with the wife down the hall. I had a bunch of orgasms that night. The one that surprised me was when I was giving oral I swear I had one when he came.

 

Since then I have enjoyed the sex but not as intensely especially in front of others.

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My first time swinging I ORGASMED. We had swapped partners for the night. This was my first time with another man. He made me cum orally first. I think I just let myself go and let myself enjoy. Looking back I don't know why I wasn't scared. I also didn't think about my husband who was doing something with the wife down the hall. I had a bunch of orgasms that night. The one that surprised me was when I was giving oral I swear I had one when he came.

 

Wow, this is interesting for several reasons!

 

(Get this out of the way first...) I'm a guy, so this sounds HOT!

 

I imagine the newness and "naughtiness" of the situation helped to get you so turned on.

 

So your first swinging experience was one where you swapped for the whole night? Wow, that sounds like some advanced swinging right off the bat! If you don't mind my asking, were you and your hubby both good in the morning with the overnight swap? The Mrs. and I have done this with a very select few couples that we felt very close with, and enjoyed it immensely, but we felt like we had to work our way to a high comfort level first. And some of our swinger friends think we're nuts for ever sleeping swapped.

 

Since then I have enjoyed the sex but not as intensely especially in front of others.

 

Hopefully you are still having a great time, though! I understand how it is not quite as intense when you're playing with others in the room. It can be a little tougher to focus on your play partner, and you also may feel a little inhibited from "letting yourself go" like you did during your overnight swap. My most intense play times have also been separate-room sessions. And the Mrs. and I make sure we don't leave each other wondering what happened "down the hall"- we give each other a full report afterwards, which often is so hot that it kicks off another round between us!

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CoupleInMD79 said:
So your first swinging experience was one where you swapped for the whole night? Wow, that sounds like some advanced swinging right off the bat! If you don't mind my asking, were you and your hubby both good in the morning with the overnight swap? The Mrs. and I have done this with a very select few couples that we felt very close with, and enjoyed it immensely, but we felt like we had to work our way to a high comfort level first. And some of our swinger friends think we're nuts for ever sleeping swapped.

 

Hopefully you are still having a great time, though! I understand how it is not quite as intense when you're playing with others in the room. It can be a little tougher to focus on your play partner, and you also may feel a little inhibited from "letting yourself go" like you did during your overnight swap. My most intense play times have also been separate-room sessions. And the Mrs. and I make sure we don't leave each other wondering what happened "down the hall"- we give each other a full report afterwards, which often is so hot that it kicks off another round between us!

 

I had posted how we got started. We met a few couples on a cruise. We went to a nude beach with a couple, our first time doing that. We said what the heck, we will never see these people again. That night, after a few drinks we decided to swap. Never in a million years did I ever ever think of doing this. The other couple was new to this too but I found out they had discussed it before. Maybe it was the drinks, maybe the nude afternoon, maybe the giddiness of having fun. Maybe I couldn't believe I was doing it. Moonlit night on a veranda with the ship speeding through the water, with a strange man, I let myself be seduced or I was seduced by the scene. I have to say it was romantic and exciting. Different than what my husband and I do. It was the newness that probably helped.

 

The next morning....I felt great and I was woken up with a snuggle from what I first forgot was not my husband. I was not drunk nor hungover, maybe tired as we watched the sun come up. He wanted to do it on the balcony but when we went out others were on their balconies. We opened the balcony door and had one more time.

 

I threw on my clothes from the night before and got some strange looks as I went back to my cabin. I totally didn't think that of course my husband and the the wife were still there. Maybe a little awkward but it was fine.

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With a swing partner? Rarely. Few guys seems able or willing to do what I need. I use a vibe and can cum with a dick in me with the vibe or a toy in me with the vibe. And only once now per play day so while I can play a lot, I don't cum much at all.

 

I learned to enjoy all the good feels and not sweat the O's.

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The only one who guarantees an orgasm is BOB, my Battery Operated Boyfriend. I enjoy sex even without getting to that point. I think I need a longer experience than most men can give. I know men can understand that sex is fun just getting your partner to enjoy. My husband will do oral to his partner if that what it takes to make her happy. One thing I found, men always orgasm.

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Swinging has been every rewarding to me and with the exception of only one play-partner I have managed to archive orgasms. I try to lead as much as possible that definitely helps.

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