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So, after years of enjoying swinging (we were seduced by a couple from a nudist camp decades ago), our life was interrupted when an idiot decided to cross three lanes of traffic against a red light ultimately crashing into me. The pain and the pain management has now been with me for nearly twenty years.

 

Guess what? Turns out that a side effect of pain management (intrathecal pumps, etc.) was to cause a moisture change of the mouth. Subtle enough to not notice so much, but devastating to my teeth. Three weeks ago, the few remaining good teeth were removed and I now am having to learn how to eat, speak, and drink.

 

My hubby is so good. He has already teased me that he is looking forward to a "gum job." My dentist (should have seen the look on his face when I asked) said that I could perform such in a few months but to let the mouth heal first. I think he turns red now every time we have to go back.

 

As lighthearted of a front that we put on, I am still very concerned about swinging with dentures. The lower denture seems to always be trying to escape as the tongue pushes on it. I can't imagine how embarrassed I would be if during passionate oral sex (with a he or she) should my dentures pop out.

 

I look like a cabbage patch munchkin when my teeth are out and my hubby smooches on me in either condition (he is so very supportive), but I worry that others will be turned off if I have to remove my dentures.

 

I am also somewhat of a screamer when all of the right spots and waves hit me. OMG, if I scream out my lowers. I can just feel the fellow go limp.

 

I suppose I'm just looking to hear if others with dentures are still experiencing the lifestyle. As of now, I have told hubby that I don't feel attractive or interested in getting into awkward situations. We moved recently and had three parents die all spaced about a year apart. We really haven't been in the mood much, but 2015 seems like a good year for hubby and I to rekindle our lifestyle enjoyment. It is just, that I am hesitant given the dentures.

 

Of course, my hubby (geesh you men all think a like) tells me that it will be just fine. We'll just tell folks up front and see how it goes. The problem is that we (mainly me) aren't so sure how that might happen.

 

Please, swingers with dentures, tell us how you made this hurdle.

 

Mrs. Afterwork

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I don't think you will have any problems at all even if you do choose to mention it, and I'm guessing even having reason to mention it will fade pretty quickly. From everyone I have talked to, at first having dentures is rough because like you say, it's hard to talk, eat, drink, etc. but they say it becomes less and less of an issue as your body starts to adapt and your mouth kind of learns to work with the new teeth instead of always fighting against them. There's probably always some level of aggravation with certain foods or whatever, but in general once you get used to them, then not bad at all.

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Mrs two4you has an upper partial. Getting used to it was the hardest part for her, but that didn't take too long, and she has had fun with swinging since that time with no issues.

 

While she has her body image issues like many of us, this isn't one of those for her. Her attitude seemed to be "Fuckit, I like swinging, and this isn't going to stop me".

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mr afterwork here: Mrs afterwork is still struggling with the lowers. We are sort of in a holding pattern until she can get more relief.

 

Sad to say but one of our couples are heading in the same direction and we love being around them and of course, enjoying the LS with them. We hubby's have privately hoped that this mutual dental status will help the ladies relax and know they are with lovers that are just that...good friends and lovers.

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