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In light of recent conversations about intimacy, I thought these videos would be interesting. They're still fairly guarded, but as open as they can be with someone they don't know. These are strangers really undressing and kissing one another, and the awkwardness is almost painful to watch. But once they let go, you can see that moment I was talking about, where you get to see another human being in all their (nearly) naked glory. It's a very cool experience. For me, this is what swinging is all about! They're promoting swinging without even realizing it.

 

Strangers undressing one another:

 

Strangers kissing one another for the first time:

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Great videos. It brought back some awkward memories from when I first entered the lifestyle, memories that I prefer not to re-live but also relieved to see it happens to everyone. Strange thing is even now, I get a bit of that awkwardness when I appear naked before someone for the first time.

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OMG.....this is exactly how it is for us.

 

One comment that really hits home with us is the "should we do it as in junior high school style" from the kissing video.

 

For us, whenever we have gotten past the first meet and have established a connection with another couple, we liken the first planned get together almost like going out on your first date in high school. All the primping, trying outfits, and the general nervousness of actually getting together with someone new for the first.

 

That is why the LS has been something amazing and brings us closer in our relationship. It renews that spirit of nervousness and sexual adventure that, as a couple, we felt had diminished in our relationship over our 20+ years together. Yes, we still feel deeply about one another, but the excitement and newness of sharing ourselves sexually with others has renewed our own spark.

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OMG.....this is exactly how it is for us.

 

One comment that really hits home with us is the "should we do it as in junior high school style" from the kissing video.

 

For us, whenever we have gotten past the first meet and have established a connection with another couple, we liken the first planned get together almost like going out on your first date in high school. All the primping, trying outfits, and the general nervousness of actually getting together with someone new for the first.

 

That is why the LS has been something amazing and brings us closer in our relationship. It renews that spirit of nervousness and sexual adventure that, as a couple, we felt had diminished in our relationship over our 20+ years together. Yes, we still feel deeply about one another, but the excitement and newness of sharing ourselves sexually with others has renewed our own spark.

 

YES!! Exactly! It's not boredom with one another, but just like trying to tickle yourself, it's hard to bring back that spark of novelty when you know one another inside and out. That familiarity is not something I would ever trade for the novelty of a new body to explore, but it is indeed wonderful to feel that overflow of brisk, new sexual energy when you get home with one another. Then it IS just like the first time with one another, all over again

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