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When I read this post to my Mrs, her first reaction (to the 12) was "ouch!". But she says she really enjoyed her first one too (as well as her 2nd)...and she only had 6 or 7. Of course, this brought up the subject of her wanting another one REALLY SOON.

 

She also asked if you might being coming down toward Tucson...

 

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Ok, gotta ask those that have done a GB, how long on average does one guy spend before its the next guys turn? I now how I feel after a session or two with a just one play partner.....cant imagine multiples....:lol:

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My wife and I have talked specifically about surprises. I'd like to surprise her with a gang bang some day. She has warmed to the idea, but with the caveat that any of the men in the GB would have to be men she's previously had sex with. That makes working up a stable of willing swing partners a longer process, but eventually I'll make it happen.

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Ok, gotta ask those that have done a GB, how long on average does one guy spend before its the next guys turn? I now how I feel after a session or two with a just one play partner.....cant imagine multiples....:lol:

 

Seldom more than 5 minutes each, certainly not more than 10 with my SO.

 

I have watched and played in GB's where the girl did 25 guys. Only one lasted more than 10. Most were in the 3-5 minute range.

 

On the other hand, I have watched a lot of one-on-one's that went for 20 or 30 minutes. That has never happened in the 4 or 5 GB's that I have personal knowledge of. If it did, the poor girl would be comatose, I think.

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As a male the thought of participating in a gangbang is rather... meh.

 

I don't really see the appeal from the male standpoint. Personally I want a woman to want to have sex with ME and for me to please her, not being a hash mark for the event. They seem like events for very desperate men, and I'm not surprised that its difficult to line up enough men who are willing to show up.

 

If a good friend were to ask me personally as a favor to her for her fantasy I'd do it, but thats the only way I could see me doing one unless I was stuck on a desert island for a year or so without female contact.

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but with the caveat that any of the men in the GB would have to be men she's previously had sex with. That makes working up a stable of willing swing partners a longer process, but eventually I'll make it happen.

 

When I finally managed to make my GB happen (the good successful one) this is exactly what I did. It wasn't a surprise, but all the guys were guys I'd either had sex with or at least gotten to know well enough to know that I wanted to (it was about half and half). That was a much more fun and comfortable situation for all, than the time prior where it was mostly guys I'd met but not had sex with previously (too many egos showed up at that one).

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I agree with Julie: it's best to know the guys and know that they want this with you.

 

The one exception that I was into was the very beautiful woman who took on all comers (typically 25 a night) at the club periodically. A club with singles is the perfect place to pick up a crowd if you want one. Her husband watched over the proceedings and weeded out the guys who didn't have the right attitude, or were drunk, etc. I participated three times and each time was a truly remarkable and memorable and wonderful moment. She left our club in Indiana and went to hollywood with dreams of becoming a porn star. She certainly had the right stuff.

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I get turned on reading about women doing gangbangs but I think I would like to fuck her with a strap on rather than me being the woman getting fucked. I don't think that's for me...

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I don't really see the appeal from the male standpoint. Personally I want a woman to want to have sex with ME and for me to please her, not being a hash mark for the event. They seem like events for very desperate men, and I'm not surprised that its difficult to line up enough men who are willing to show up.

 

 

Certainly there were guys in the GB's that I have seen who were not getting the one-on-one that Chicup (and I, usually) likes. But, there were also many guys who were regularly successful in non-GB situations. "Desperate" is too broad a brush to paint all of the participants with.

 

For me, it was an interesting change and a chance to bang one of the most beautiful, softest, sweetest women I have ever met. With her, it was essentially GB or nothing. I picked GB.

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Mr. Little Bird here: Any time you go into something with the wrong expectations, I think it's easy to be disappointed, whether it's a restaurant, an amusement park or a date.

 

 

I think the guys need to understand that in most cases this is done FOR the lady, not TO the lady... despite some pornos out there that might imply otherwise.

 

BTW, my little sweetie feels two boys is a gangbang! And while that doesn't meet The Definition, it meets her definition, which is more important imo.

 

Love,

A little birdy

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We've participated in two gangbangs. Based upon that limited experience, I can make these limited comments on a number of the issues raised during this thread:

 

1. What's the appeal of a gangbang for a man? For me, it was mostly the opportunity to watch: I'm really turned on by seeing her in action, and this was a much more baroque form of action than I'd ever otherwise witnessed in person. Also, both parties involved other women (one additional woman in the first one, two in the second) and, needless to say, I enjoyed having some time with them. For her, I think the primary appeal was that all that attention made her feel sexy--which she surely is, but I'm glad that she got an extra jolt of affirmation. Still and all, we didn't have a conversion experience as a result of these events: it's possible we'd participate in another someday, but it's never going to become our regular thing.

 

2. How much time did each man spend with her? I guess that our gangbangs were pretty unorganized, as they were both really free-for-alls. In each case, we were invited by a couple we know who are regular gangbangers: a group of guys whom they'd played with rented a hotel room and, once all the expected guests had shown up, the clothes started to come off and the fucking began. In the course of the night, I'm pretty sure my wife was with all of the men (four plus me in the first one, seven plus me in the other) and I know she was with all of the women. But there were no lines forming in front of each woman; rather, when there was an opening, it was understood that any man was free to jump in. Some jumped in multiple times. Of course, the women were free to say no to anyone, but only in one case did my wife do so, to a man whose cock was just too big to be comfortable.

 

3. How did we feel after our first gangbang? That's really the oddest part. We expected to feel some pretty heightened emotions--and we did while the event was in process--but afterwards we felt as if we had just come from a movie or a play. In fact, we went to the same light-night sandwich shop we often stop at after the theater, got ourselves something to eat, and went home to watch the episode of "Jeopardy" that we'd taped. We both laughed about how casual the whole thing seemed.

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I was just wondering how the women here who've done gangbangs felt after their first one. My first big gangbang was with another woman and we had 12 guys show up. It was pretty intense for both of us because we may have overestimated the number of guys we could take. It was really difficult for both of us because we each played with all 12 guys and we both did anal. There were times during that night when we thought we couldn't take any more.

 

Afterwards I had a mix of emotions. I was exhausted but after about an hour I felt a sense of calmness and peace. It might sound strange but I was really proud of myself. What really surprised me was that before the night was over I was feeling horny again and played with some of the couples who had come to watch our gangbang.

 

Just for educational (not opinion) purposes: did you use condoms? If so, was it a problem keeping properly lubricated? It's hard enough in our MMMF, never mind in a gangbang, so we're curious.

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My first and only time included 8 guys. I could tell you it stopped being sexually arousing after the third guy. Mr. A and I were both new at it and we didn't think of having a "fluffer" so each guy took a while to cum and I was getting sore, whcih lasted a couple of days. My initial emotion was a sense of relief and proud that I did it, but I could tell you that after everyone left, I felt guilty. I think it has a lot to do with my conservative asian upbringing. I had the same feeling when I first got into the lifestyle. I have gotten over it mostly because Mr. A has been very supportive. But the guilt do tend to rear its ugly head whenever I see my parents.

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Our first one was at a club in the group room. I supervised all the guys who were allowed to particapate. She ended up taking a total of 11 guys but they funny thing was several of them went LIMP. So she did a lot of sucking and hand work. The only problem was that some of the guys needed to show respect. Several forgot that if you wanted to get into the action you needed to get naked to participate. After a while I would tell the ones who would not get naked they were not allowed to be part of it. Only took the rejection of 2 guys for them to respect the situation.

But when it was over and done she was all Smiles:):):)

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I wish there was a more elegant word than gangbang to describe an insatiable woman getting to experience a string of lovers all at once. :)

 

I never thought I'd want to do it, but my recent lover started dirty talking to me about it during a session one day, and ever since, I've been fantasizing about it. I think I'd go with 3 to begin with, just to be conservative!

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At a party a few weeks ago wifey got her 1st gangbang. 5 total. She was running around the pool nude looking for #6 when I got her. She found him but I was tired of supervising at that point and making sure all was ok. One guy was trying to go bareback, he was having the ol limp condom issue thing going on. She had a good time but was a little worn out the next day, she still had to take care of me when she got home so that was 6 for her. We were ready for it at that point, it had been talked about in the past how many she could handle. She felt pretty sexy, guys waiting to have their turn with her in the gang bang room.

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I've only gangbanged one woman - 4 of us guys - in college. I miss it. The other 3 guys left and the woman came back to my place and we did not sleep much. So I guess she enjoyed it. I know I did, mostly. She would not take anal - I asked and she said no so we kept doing in 'normal'.

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Neither wife nor I have done a gangbang per se, but Question - When it's a guy's turn, does he always blow his load when he's in, or do they switch off before cumming? I'm thinking about a no condoms situation, like we do.

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My first one was just happenstance, unplanned and with 4 strangers and my husband. We were all staying in an old motel on the ocean, on the beach. It was late at night, they invited us to join them for shots at a picnic table on back of the grassy lot. So, it went shots and conversation, to body shots (mostly on my body), to licking sucking to gb. Right afterwards, I kind felt like I had been at a party, everyone so happy. Next morning, hung over and sore. When we awoke, I asked my husband, that wasn’t a gb was it, I mean you wouldn’t call what happened last night a gb would you. He assure me that he and most of America certainly would. I just thought, swinging, swaps, MFM and now I’ve done that too. Wow.

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It was fun but I felt kind of let down due to not as many showing up as I wanted. Planning another one for this month for my birthday, hoping for a better turnout.

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Bluespruce1 Great story, thank you for sharing, that sounds like a great time, i would enjoy one like that.

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Yes there was a point where I was on all fours and one of the guys pulled out of me and slipped his cick inside my ass. After an orgasm or two it felt great.

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... Afterwards I had a mix of emotions. I was exhausted but after about an hour I felt a sense of calmness and peace. It might sound strange but I was really proud of myself. What really surprised me was that before the night was over I was feeling horny again and played with some of the couples who had come to watch our gangbang.
When I first became non-monogamous I was having sex with my new love, the man who would become my husband, and my ex-fiance. I was screwing them separately at first, but they both knew about the other and were fine with it. It felt perfect, natural, the way it should be for me, and it made me feel powerful, in control, appreciated. Those feelings continued as I got into MFMing, and being a part-time hardcore Lesbian.

 

I've only been with five men in my life, and still screwing three of them. The most I ever had at one time was four of them: my husband (does that even count?), my boyfriend/ex-fiance, Lora's ex-husband (she left him to join our family), and the guy who Lora, Clair and I share now as a FWB. It all seem "right."

 

Yes there was a point where I was on all fours and one of the guys pulled out of me and slipped his cick inside my ass. After an orgasm or two it felt great.
Yeah, guys like anal and I like DP, so there was that. I always prefer their cum inside me, so after a guy put his first load in my vagina he could go around back after I sucked him up again. It was good because it was all what I wanted.
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I tried it before just to experience how it feels. After the experience, just like Couplers, I felt empowered that I was able to try what others would just love to fantasize about. The experience was great from an hedonistic point of view - that is when I turned-off all logical and moral filters for a brief moment in time. Afterwards aside from being worn out and dead tired, there was guilt (I'm not saying it was absolutely wrong because everything was consensual) but it was like all the philosophers I read about were debating with me inside my head on the nature of being human, of pleasure, or of the purpose of human sexuality. Then there was a bit of worry if I caught some bugs from my partners during the process :lol:

 

I call it a "mini-gb" and wrote about it at some prior post. I feel 3 guys all at one time are just enough for my experiment as it is difficult to organize a larger group that I would consider 'safe' for my psyche. Small group but not dull at all. It was somewhat similar to the experience of "willyoats" in a prior post from this thread:

 

I forgot to mention above other times that might qualify as GB. Once three of us guys had sex with her twice in less than two hours. Six bangs, but only three guys = GB? That's the one she enjoyed the most.

 

Once, two of us did her 5 times in about 18 hours, 3 times in the afternoon and evening and twice more in the morning. That's 10 for her. Is that a GB? Doesn't make much difference; we all loved it!

 

It was my last gb but later on I tried to beat my own record to have tried 4 partners on a date, separately but successively in one day. At least it is at par with Coupler's record, though not all at the same time. ::P:

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Yes there was a point where I was on all fours and one of the guys pulled out of me and slipped his cick inside my ass. After an orgasm or two it felt great.

 

Had you had much anal prior to that happening?

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Yes - it’s definitely something I enjoy after having a good vaginal orgasm. 9 times out of 10 when we are playing with another guy, we get into a DP session as long as his cock isn’t too big - that does nothing for me. My husband and I enjoy it as well.

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Did just this a few months ago, wife and I just married after a few years of dating, and no regrets from either one of us doing a gangbang.  We had talked about it a few times and visited a few nudist and swinger clubs over the years.  Went out one night to a swinger club and things just clicked into place for the both of us finally.  She ended up taking 5 total over about 2 hours.  A few barebacked her unknowingly, but thats another story.  We plan to do it again actually as it was great from every angle imaginable.

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I was tired and sore as hell.   I had nine men.   They came back for seconds and thirds.   Loved it.   Hubby was proud of me and I felt great pride too.  Ten years ago I did 23 over three days at an adult nudist resort we are members of.   I love sex.

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We had previously done several MFM and swaps.  The first GB was just happenstance, not planned, 4 strangers staying at the same motel and my husband, kind of shots, body shots, gb sort of thing.  I was quite happy at the end of night, felt more like it had been a party then a gb I guess.  In fact, the next morning when I awoke, I asked my husband, you wouldn’t call that a gb, would you.  He assured me it was.

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Mary got a little wild at a house party one night, it wasn't a gang bang per se. Normally, the most she would do in one night was three - one man in a foursome with me, perhaps a single guy, and of course me. One night, she did four in an orgy-type situation.

 

That night at the house party, after a foursome a single guy desired her, she agreed and didn't complain when he took her into the common room. And then the chain started. We're sure she had at least eight, the total may have been a dozen or more. 

 

On the ride home, it didn't seem much different than any other night, except she was very tired and we didn't have reclaim sex. The next day, I couldn't tell any difference as we got up and went to church. When we finally got around to talking about it later that day, she was exuberant about the experience, and when we hit the mattress in the afternoon she seemed as excited as usual.

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I don't think I have ever technically had a gang bang. The situations I have been in to have several men, it has been with several at our parties, once with some guys I picked up at a wedding reception, but they weren't in the mindset of like lining up and taking turns getting off. I have been a slut at some football parties. My husband had his friends over and over the course of an afternoon, some visited me in our bedroom...separately. I waited patiently and masturbated between lovers. I guess this answers a question I have avoided...I have fucked married men (cheaters). 

 

Anyway, I felt slutty and used. I wanted to feel that way. Physically it was awesome. I got off a lot with these excited men. I wasn't so much sore from it as I was swollen, ripe, and dirty from their cum. 

 

 

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From a woman's perspective, I like to turn these kinds of questions around.  Have you ever been part of gangbanging a guy?  Lora, Clair and I have had three-on-ones with hubby, Red and Walter.  Getting them to do two of us is not too difficult, but the third erection and orgasm is a struggle.  He had to lick each one of us too.  None of them have raised any subsequent concerns about being "abused."

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I’ve participated in two gangbangs, both of them spontaneously at parties. First thing To remember is that it’s about the woman. Us men are there to fulfill her desires. Second, cum quick. Its about how many different men she can take, not about how long you can hold out in an already well-fucked pussy with several ,ore guys lined up behind you, playing with their dicks to keep themselves arroused.

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17 hours ago, PeterJ said:

cum quick

That disqualifies me.  To a certain extent, I don't want to, but even when time is short (a morning quickie, "funch" at noon), under ten minutes is rare.

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First off let me say I’m kinky af and my wife is a good ol christian country girl.. so I always assumed my fantasy of watching her in a gangbang would never happen. I thought it wouldn’t happen with anyone actually.. until my wife was gone for two weeks on a cruise to Jamaica.  Her gorgeous sister was staying with us temporarily and that second night her boyfriend broke up with her.. we had a couple drinks.. talked.. and that was it.  The next night tho she asked me to come to a house party with her.. I went.. we got too drunk to drive and decided to stay there. Around 2-3 in the morning it was just her, me, six other guys and the hosts wife who was sleeping. I don’t remember who did it.. but someone put a porno on in the background. We migrated from the kitchen to the living room.. all awkwardly watching porn.  My sister in law noticed one of the guys was rubbing himself under his pants.. I don’t know if it was that or the porn but something turned her on.  She slid closer to me and put my hand on her thigh. It didn’t take long before I was fingering her and the other guys started to circle around us.  We slid her clothes off and laid her across the couch.. everyone had a hand on her, groping her.. my buddy from high school was the first to have sex with her. I kid you not.. this was something out of a dirty porno with everyone stroking themselves over top of her.. my buddy pulled out and finished on her belly.. she didn’t hesitate touching the next guys thing and lining him up.. this went on for about 30 minutes each guy taking a turn.. some finishing on her belly, on on her face and the last didn’t even bother pulling out.  Now I’m normally not into this kind of thing.. but she was dripping their leftover out.. kinda gently rubbing it around.. I honestly only intended to finish myself off until she sat up halfway and wrapped her legs around me.. she was BEGGING me to do it and by now I ain’t have the willpower to stop.. I slid into the creamiest, loosest and warmest vagina I’ve ever been in.. I pounded away for a few minutes and when I told her I was about to cum, this girl pulled me closer and told me not to pull out.. it was the largest load I’ve ever pushed out in my life. We slept together that night.. didn’t talk about it for months.. until she text me one night asking me to come hang out.  I declined. 
 

My wife never found out.. I thought the whole situation would never be brought up again. But a year ago that dirty little B word was hanging out in the city with my wife/her sister.. when she came back the next day she was acting weird/distant.. bugged the hell out of her and she finally told me she was drunk at a party (of course) where her and my sister had a “threesome”. Turns out it wasn’t a threesome tho and she let 3 or 4, maybe even more, guys have sex with her.  She blamed it on the liquor.. I flipped tf out.. our trust has been shaken to its core but we still together. That’s the first and the last story I hope I ever have to share on this topic. 

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On 9/25/2020 at 8:00 PM, ChrisFromCloquetMN said:

my wife is a good ol christian country girl..

When I decided after two years that it would be fun for both of us if my husband played too (I was fucking my ex-fiancé and we had even started doing MFMs), I did the recruiting among my girlfriends and acquaintances.  The success rate with my religious friends was pretty high, much higher than I expected.  (None of them were "country" and not all Christian - there were two observant Jews and one a Muslim.  (I'm a lapsed strict Catholic.)   I think that they felt comfortable that David and I were married and we were letting them into our marriage, like they weren't fucking around, it was all within the confines of marriage, just not their marriage.  We are still friends with those women, who all married, one divorced, but we don't talk about those times.   Actually, we are friends with all of the women we have played with.  The two women who joined us permanently and are now part of our family, however, never were religious.

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1 hour ago, couplers said:

We are still friends with those women, who all married, one divorced, but we don't talk about those times.   Actually, we are friends with all of the women we have played with. 

With one of the other (non-religious) women who is married now, we still do reminisce about the threesomes we had with her and us - including when her husband is part of the conversation.  He's curious about it; she says it turns him on because although he had a number of partners before they met, he never had an FMF threesome.  They been clear, however, that although they think our poly situation is nice for us, marriage for them is monogamy.

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i really enjoyed my first gangbang that is a little misleading as i did pull a train when i was a teenager my husband and i talked this over and i asked him to stay out of the planning asked a male friend to handle the details he invited 32 black men to start with knowing not all would follow through at the given time and place 14 black men i black girl whu would serve as a towell girl and keep men sexed up my friend had contacted motel in a run down neighborhood and they agreed to allow it  he had to protect the mattress as lots loose semen i toked a few before and felt wonderful it had been agreed all holes open and person could go as many times as he could our friend acted as my bodyguard so no harm to me  this was great part no one over 10 inches was allowed all this took all one saturday  we started in the morning  and went til dark i had no solid food for 3 days prior and i had washed out now i really enjoyed it and really would do it again there is a period after when i came down  if any want more info maryann660ac@gmail.com

 

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First gangbang was kind of a weekend experience rather than just one time gangbang session. It was hot, awkward, weird, exciting, fun, annoying, pleasurable, and a little painful for her.  We've done it like this a couple more times as it's really fun but the first time was just too long.  By the end of the last day both her holes and her throat were too sore.  My GF can take A LOT of sex but that was the only time I think I've ever seen her hit her limit.

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This is the first time I have posted here and I am so glad I found this site to open up and tell what my experience was like, this is from the point of view of me, the husband of Jen my wife now. She had only turned 18 and we went on our first holiday together in Spain. We had not had any partners before we met each other and she had come from a very rural family in the countryside and boys were none existent but we met during our first jobs together in a local equestrian centre. 

While on the holiday (vacation) we ended up being directed into an underground bar by a tout on the street handing out free drinks vouchers so being inexperienced we accepted and went down into the bar which was actually quite nice but very noisy with loud hip hop music.

I remember I had two drinks of beer and Jen who was my girlfriend at the time was constantly given free small drinks (slammers i now understand them to be called).

After a while she had become tipsy and a guy who was a similar age to her and Spanish looking came over to her and talked a while with her the best they could given the loud music and I remember that he had to get very close to her face to hear her. 

I was obviously watching because she was my girlfriend and I had fallen for her quickly so I wanted to make sure she was safe.

Shortly after they had spoken with each other he ushered her and then myself out of the bar and into a corridor then eventually he opened a door and allowed Jen to go in first and then myself and lastly he came in behind us and I heard him lock the door.

I quickly saw that there was a lot of older men in that room and they just came straight over to Jen and started to strip her until she was totally nude and trying to cover her privates with her hands but a couple of the men got her to take her hands away and hold them at her side.

She was so red and embarrassed and I heard them all discussing and making comments about her pubic hair and then regarding her breast and nipples, they turned her around and everyone observed her until two of the men just came over and lifted her and carried her over to a large fat man who was sitting on a couch and they both lowered her onto him with one hand under each buttock, and I remember seeing how he slipped inside her in one movement until they allowed all her weight to rest on him.

She was facing him so I couldn't see her face but two of the men stood by her side and directed her face towards their cocks.

Shortly the man who she was sitting on pulled her fully down onto him and had his arms around her back and I heard him groan like he was in pain until they both went so very still for a while, the two men who had initially helped to lower her down helped to lift her off him and they put her back on the couch on her back and they both got between her legs and they both made love to her and after they had finished off inside her all of the other men took turns with her, she never resisted but just lay there and let them do what they needed to do.

After it was all over they let us leave and we didn't talk about it until 3 weeks after we had arrived back home she told me that she had not had her period, after she told her mum she was made to give birth to the baby and I married her to make it look like it was mine.

I have always lived knowing that the baby was from one of those men in that room lucky enough to conceive with her.

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