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Wow. This commenter has issues:

Sexual predators are master dissemblers. Being sociopaths gives them the veneer of normalcy and great charm.

 

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Yet Ryan is seeking a "like minded, committed couple". This is standard code among sexual predators and it means a man who let's his wife out for sex - barter being the mode of exchange and each "husband" pimping his wife.

 

Calling it consensual is a misnomer. Women trapped in this lifestyle are victims of serious mental abuse, manipulation and coercion.

 

It is despicable to try to whitewash it into respectability.

 

This fellow should try meeting a few of us "abused, manipulated and coerced women."

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VegasLee said:
Craig's list emails leads to firing

 

Another good reason to think twice about trying to hookup on line. :confused:

 

Precisely why so many of us try to remain SO anonymous.

 

PB&J said:
Wow. This commenter has issues:

Sexual predators are master dissemblers. Being sociopaths gives them the veneer of normalcy and great charm.

 

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Yet Ryan is seeking a "like minded, committed couple". This is standard code among sexual predators and it means a man who let's his wife out for sex - barter being the mode of exchange and each "husband" pimping his wife.

 

Calling it consensual is a misnomer. Women trapped in this lifestyle are victims of serious mental abuse, manipulation and coercion.

 

It is despicable to try to whitewash it into respectability.

 

This fellow should try meeting a few of us "abused, manipulated and coerced women."

 

Since my wife brought the idea of swinging does that make me the one being abused? If so, PLEASE abuse me some more! :)

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Agreed! Sounds like this guy really has some personal issues of his own.

 

The scary part is some people really believe that bullshit.

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One needn't be qualified as a potential Rhodes Scholar in order to see that swinging isn't considered a "normal" activity by the mainstream public. I doubt that they would have retained their jobs, even had they never mentioned their place of employment in the solicitation.

 

If you wish to join in the festivities, you need to find a way to conceal it from anybody who you haven't personally seen doing the same before revealing yourself.

 

My Opinion Only

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I read this last month in some other publication. Personally, I would never advert on CL, but for the most part, I hope is a special place in hell for people who want to see them fired.

 

I loved the comments on us women who are coerced and brainwashed to participate. Yeah... that's me. :(

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I would have thought that actors and musicians and anyone associated with the arts, would have cared less.

 

Secondly it is apparent that the people (allegedly the lawyer and nurse) he met through the Craigs list were on a mission to "out" some swingers. This is a great example to never to give personal information (name and place of employment) to anyone you don't really know. I assume that the Ryan's didn't care who knew if they were swingers but I bet they never thought they would be fired for it.

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It would seem that whatever one does outside the workplace has a way of making its way into the work place.

 

I would like to think that if I am a good worker and follow all company policies and that when I clock out and leave I am on my own personal policies.

 

Saying what they did to the other couple is just being honest and their should be no reason for dismissal.

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This story is largely why we never reveal the Mr's employer. We'll admit his occupation, but never ever where he works nor what shift. It's no one's business and you never know when you might have a crazy partner or potential partner who decides to make life difficult for you. We cannot afford to have our livelihood harmed like that. :( I hope that couple gets a better job, or their job back with the theatre.

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We never speak of where we work and usually give only a loose description of what we do. I can't believe someone would be so hateful as to perpetuate such an act - to chat, to save the logs, to send the pictures and logs to an employer. I guess I am naive.

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Hopefully, they'll learn that meanness is bad Karma.

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In our area there's about 60% chance that you have the same employer (or close enough), sometimes swinging and networking end up being the same thing. That doesn't mean we go around talking about where he works, but it's been known to come up (and 99% of the time it comes up, the people it comes up with also work for basically the same place)

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wow. I don't usually tell people my job until I "know" them, I mean as much as you ever really know someone through online chats, meeting once etc. I have a public sector job and it probably wouldn't go over too well, so I try to be careful and kind of vague about it all. At first, I didn't want to put face pics on SLS, but I decided the only way anyone is going to see that face pic is if they are also members, so what the hell.

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Most stories we cover on here are one and done, with very little follow up information.

 

Occasionally you get one like this that keeps popping back up every couple of years with more information.

 

Court allows defamation suit against swinging former employee of Spokane theater

When Johnson found out, she wrote him a lengthy letter stating that he was being terminated not because of his “swinger lifestyle” but because he had coupled it with his employment, which the theater worried had the the potential to alienate potential donors. According to the court, Ryan admitted to posting to Craigslist looking for sex, but denied that he linked it to the theater.

 

Freshly unemployed, Ryan started an invective-filled blog against the theater. He also obtained the domain names “spokanecivictheater.org” and “spokanecivictheatre.org.” According to the court, Ryan used his Internet presence to stymie the future job prospects of Johnson.

 

In 2013, Johnson responded by filing a suit against Ryan for intentional interference with business expectancy and defamation. Ryan got the motion dismissed using an anti-SLAPP (strategic lawsuit against public participation) defense.

 

However, the appeals court ruled that Ryan’s blogging activities were of a personal, not public concern, and reversed the lower court’s dismissal.

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