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What is soft swinging?

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Obviously we are beginners. What is soft swing?

 

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soft swinging is basically anything but full swap (you don't have intercourse with someone other than your partner). As for what it is within that, that depends on the person using the term. It could just mean same-room sex (watching another couple have sex as you have sex with your partner), or it could mean anything but.. meaning that you swap for foreplay and oral sex but when it comes time to do the deed you do that with YOUR partner.

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meaning that you swap for foreplay and oral sex but when it comes time to do the deed you do that with YOUR partner.

 

And it really is not a bad way to start... but eventually you'll probably go "over the falls" and share intercourse. THAT is the best part.

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Originally posted by AmyS:

....And it really is not a bad way to start... but eventually you'll probably go "over the falls" and share intercourse. THAT is the best part.

 

I agree, that softswing (no swapping for intercourse) may be the way to "start" off at first....But personally, going "over the falls" (full swap) isn't the "best part"...For us, seeing each other being sexually aroused while being watched, pleasing and being pleased by other swinging partners as well as each other (of course) is what sexually turns US on. Now for us, THAT is the best part! :D

 

Again, it's personal preference... ;)

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I suppose I cannot argue with that! I was thinking more from the receiving perspective than the giving perspective. (I was a little horny.) When my husband is with the other wife it is a HUGE turn on. (I have not had the courage to "help" him yet.) Before getting married I was a virgin but I had experienced most activities short of intercourse. I think that is why when we full swap with our friends I enjoy screwing more than anything else. Enjoying the forbidden fruit maybe?

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AmyS...Yes, I know whatcha mean. *lol @ your "horny" comment, knowing the "feeling"...* You GO girl! ;)

 

I enjoy watching hubby with our female partner(s), seeing UP close of his HARD thick cock sliding in & out of another HOT WET pussy, making her dripping with her cum! THAT turns me on to NO end! *Fanning myself, feeling my temperature rising just thinking about it...lol* ;D

 

And the lovemaking & HOT WILD SEX we both have of the "after effects" is no doubt another BEST part of our swinging rendezvous! OMG! I think that "horny" thing is kinda catchy here now, AmyS! :eek:

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I think Julie's definition is a good one. I break soft swing up into two categories. The first is when there is contact (kissing, oral, etc.) with someone other than your spouse. Then there is soft soft swing, which would be no contact outside of your partner, but having sex with your partner in another's presence.

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