Julie has experimented with changing the heading of this forum from single males to single swingers.
I applaud this and would like to initiate some conversation concerning single swingers.
If you are a single swinger please let us know how you are recieved.
Almost every party I have gone to (hundreds anyhow), there were at least some single females.
This board has what I percieve as a cross-section of swingers representing themselves.
I remember when swinging meant a single guy that got laid a lot.
Hey that guys a "real swinger".
The stigma of single females being sluts and guys being sluts with dicks is changing.
As usual Julie is ahead of the game.
Single swingers are in fact finding a place in the swinging community.
I see more single guys bitching about conditions than I do couples.
It used to be that it was all couples complaining about the horrible single men.
Now I see single men retalliating because they may be displaced swingers (like me, for instance, I have been in a partner swinging situation for most of my adult years), or they are genuine and resent the way they are treated.
I see couples on this board more interested in single males that are truly single males.
I see few clubs nowadays that exclude single males. They may charge them more and screen them more but I agree with that myself. How do you feel about that? I think the single male should pay more and be better screened because it will filter out the scum. Can you imagine if they let single guys in free like they do single females?? LOL....the club would be full of every pervert with a dick in the state!!
The single swinging females now have a forum to talk too.
We have heard from the couples, and the single males.
I would like to hear from swinging single females, as well as single males and couples about the status and acceptance of the swinging single female.
I know you are out there. Many have joined the board recently. Please tell us your prospective and anyone that has an opinion about swinging single females (besides I WANT ONE LOL), please comment on how the single swinging female can get into the lifestyle without feeling like she is a target with a big bulleseye.
John, who is gratefully Julie's helper again.