I will say one thing, John. Because of our first experience we have been reluctant to try another single guy, although finding another man for J to play with is our primary motivation. But, you, ATAK, curious24 and other single males here (I'm sorry if I missed somebody!) have made us start to consider looking through that pile of "dimes" again. Thanks.Originally posted by Flori_DAMAN
You have addressed many issues Dean.
Welcome aboard. One thing that I will suggest though. People that have no interest in meeting a single guy never will. It is not the guy, it is just that they don't prefer one. That is OK cuz some couples seek them.
Don't focus on trying to convince couples that "if they only met the right one" cuz it doesn't matter. They are not interested and they have every right not to be.
But as a single swinger you seem to have lots of consideration for the lifestyle and respect for people that you may run into, obviously many, so keep going at it.