My wife and I are neophytes completely. We have been married for 25 years and we have 6 young sons. We are professionals. I think that we are both reasonably rather attractive. We have great sex together. We have a very strong and stable relationship. And the relationship ans sex continue getting better. Before we got married we were both rather promiscuous. Yet we have been completely faithful in the past 25 years. We are planning on going to a local on-premises club soon. Neither of us desires a full swap. I could do a soft swap and I think that my wife would get very turned on watching but might feel hesitant about having sex with me in front of others. However, the club we have chosen has some private spas and some private rooms. One of the reasons we are going is to meet new people and to have some uninhibited fun. Because my wife is very conservative she goes very slowly. Like anal sex, at first she wouldn't let me even near her rectum, but slowly I went, and while we don't yet have full anal penetration, she lets me sometimes put the head in and she will take my fullly inserted thumb with great pleasure. She goes slowly. I want to go slowly with this for her? Do you see a problem?