I am the female of the pair, in my early 40's and over the last 3 years have lost a lot of weight. Due to the weightloss, my natural 36DD boobs have lost their perky fullness and now have the saggy National Geographic tribal native look, and I have a little bit of loose skin on my upper arms, tummy, and inner thigh area. I gave birth to one child 17 years ago, so have stretchmarks on my tummy from that as well. I have a nice, slim, hourglass figure, everything's in proportion, & I try to cover up the loose skin/stretchmark flaws by wearing bodystockings &/or thigh highs and very sexy, flattering outfits to clubs/parties, but I can't really do much about the way my boobs look (have even invested in some special lotions for it, but they don't help all that much). I love the liberating atmosphere of the clubs/parties and enjoy having my boobs out as much as I can in those settings because it just feels so good, but sometimes get self conscious about their droopiness eventhough I see many women there who are just as or even more physically flawed than me letting it all hang out. Despite that, I still can't get over this feeling of inadequacy, but would not opt for a boob job due to allergies...I know my body would react badly to implants.
I just wanted to know from the guys, how much of a turnoff is my list of physical flaws to you? Should I just let go, continue to project confidence, & enjoy myself despite these flaws, or am I just kidding myself here? I know this seems a silly question from someone who doesn't even engage in play with others, but being an exhibitionist, I want to turn others on when playing with my man & worry I might be doing the opposite, eventhough he assures me I'm still smoking hot. I figure he's biased since he loves me! Haha
And ladies with similar flaws, any recommendations of creams/lotions or non-surgical procedures that actually work to minimize these flaws would be greatly appreciated!