My husband asked me to give a friend of ours a blowjob and I agreed. I told him before we did anything that I didn't want to if there were going to be any problems because the guy is around quite a bit and I enjoy just hanging out. He never had any problems with me sitting around talking with him before and he knew that he was going to be doing some construction at my work.
He said there weren't going to be any problems and so I gave him a blowjob. It was nothing spectacular - the guy is average. Still ok, not dissing him in any way, just - you know he was ok. Anyway, the next time we saw him socially hubby got kindof standoffish - not rude or anything...just not as friendly as usual. I think the friend picked up on it and he has been kind of stand offish as well to me (not to hubby). I haven't called him for anything other than work, haven't been flirting with him, talking to him more than I used to. Well then my husband accused me of sneaking off to give him another blowjob. I may have been alone with the guy for 15 minutes total! I told my husband any time the friend and I talked on the phone or texted and what was said (it was about work always). Husband has been sitting right there or nearby when I have talked to the guy in person and there have been no chats on the computer or anything. Neither the friend nor I have said anything to each other about the first blowjob or any future one.
Did I do something wrong? Is there something I can do to help my husband understand that I will not do anything he is not there to see, nor will I initiate contact for that purpose? Any advice would be appreciated.