So about a month ago we met up with a group of friends for dinner, drinks and dancing, there were 2 new couples to our group there invited by others. We had no issue with this as it is our norm to invite new couples into our group of friends.
There was one of the new women whom I was having a blast with, we like the same music etc... Her hubby and L were getting along great as well, so the 4 of us decided to get a room and continue the party in a more private setting. We got to the room and started fooling around, here is when things started to go bad as she disrobed, now I don't need Barbie but this women was wearing a padded push-up bra, a corset and panties that hold stuff in. Normally I say that I am attracted to personalty and that is true, but this woman was such a huge turn off once she was unclothed that I couldn't get past it. I faked it as long as I could and then went with the old "my back just went out" excuse to end things. I know that that wasn't the right way to handle things, but since they were from about 200 miles away and the chances of seeing them again are slim I decided to spare her feelings and try and keep things light.
Now they have decided to come back to our area for another visit and want to hook up again. I went with the old standby of hey it was fun but we don't think we are a good long term match.
Has anyone else run into this? How did you handle it.