Long time lurker, have learned so much reading the posts here. We have been around swinging IE; clubs, resorts and such for about 8 years. We really enjoy the atmosphere, nudity, sex, no judgeing what so ever. Having stated all of that, I will say we have never fully swapped, just oral, also we enjoy giving a show as well as watching. So we do bring a little to the party.
We are high school sweethearts married almost 30 years. So our full sexual experience is only with each other. ( trying to give our long history in a short letter, not easy) We absolutely love going to Menages, and wife dressing so sexy just knocks my socks off!
So to the meat of the post so to speak. We invited another couple back to our hotel to further our fun. When they arrived we were willing to go all the way, but only with condoms. It is the rules we set for now. ( having read this board knowing rules may change) It seams no one had any condoms, so we just did oral all around and sex only with own spouse. During the course of playing other male tried to insert into my wife a couple of different times, she felt bad about pushing him out, but that was the rules we set.
I told her she did great, not to feel bad at all. We had a great time with them. Our rules are just that our rules.
We did learn a lesson here, now that we feel ready to take the next step we will have supplies on hand, after all we said condoms required we should have provided.
Since we are still newbies so to speak. How would more experienced swingers feel about what happened. Was it ok for us not to "finish" the evening without condoms? We really enjoyed the other couple ( hope they also enjoyed us) and we would be willing to play again with them.
Having read this board a long time I feel like I know how it will be answered, but life is full of surprises.
Sorry for such a long post.