Since we have no clubs around here, we meet most of our potential play partners online.
On SLS, there are age limits on each persons profile. There is a couple on there that we both find very attractive. They are about 20 years or so younger than us and we fall out of their age range. We're both brave enough to email them and tell them, "We're out of your stated age range, however, we both find you very attractive and wonder if...."
Does this deter you in contacting a couple if you're out of that range?
Do you go ahead and tell them you find them attractive even though you're out of their age range?
Is your age range set in stone?
Do you meet people out of your age range?