Sex Slave and I have been in the lifestyle for about a year now and have had a few 3-somes and a couple of soft swaps (circumstances didn't let us go all the way).
Yes, we did enjoy them very much but on the last ocassion, hubby had some strange feelings the next morning. He could not put his finger on what the feeling was, I know it's not jealousy or shame, maybe it's because we are fairly new to the lifestyle.
We have a very open comunication in our relationship and I could tell something was bothering him and when I asked, he said he felt strange about the night before. He thinks it might have been his conscience and after discussing his feelings I offered to put the swinging on hold until he was sure of the way he felt and to make sure this would not hurt our marriage.
He does not want to stop (and neither do I), in fact we really enjoy it and want more sometime very soon. He has now got over that feeling but I wanted to make sure that it wasn't anything I did that upset him or that we would be okay if we went back. He assured me it had nothing to do with me, it was just the way he was feeling. This feeling he got was just the last time we played with a couple we met, the times before that he was fine and we both enjoyed the playtime.
Has anybody else had strange feelings or felt this way at first? Is this something that happens to someone and goes away after a while?
Again, he has no idea what that strange feeling was because we were having fun and wants to go back for more.