I've been reading from several sites to gather information but never before have posted. Do have a few questions. Is there a level that is even softer than soft swinging? Am interested in a m/f couple(s) sharing the same room/bed to have sex in but without any sexual touching between them (even kissing), with exception for the females. Has anyone heard of this before? Is it possible for a couple to go upstairs at an 'on-site' place and not have sex with another couple, just with themselves. Don't wanna come off as a prude asking these questions. I can't any friends these questions as they are borderline Stephen Baldwins.