So many people have recommended this site to us. We're amazed at the community here! We've had an add on SLS for a couple months now, but aren't getting the results we were hoping for. Since we're new, maybe you could tell us anything that we're doing wrong. (SLS PROFILE )
For one, we're starting slow. We want to find friends that we can enjoy their company on both sides of the bedroom door. Just watching each other and playing strip poker is all we want to start with. Within 12 hours of posting an ad on a different site, we got nasty messages about not being committed to the 'lifestyle' blah blah. Don't you have to start somewhere???
We don't have kids. We don't want kids. Are we just screwed? Seems like about everyone we meet has them. It just makes it hard to have spur of the moment dinner meetings or plan weekend getaways with new friends.
We've posted in some other threads about which sites are best for finding certain kinds of people, but for slow-starters like us, we're open for any recommendations. Surely we can't be the only couple curious about swinging and wanting to proceed with caution. The more harassing messages we get, the more it turns us off. I guess some morons don't get that.
Looking forward to your input!