Are we the only couple out there who gets tired of reading all the ads and they say "he's straight, she's bi (or bi curious, whatever)" We are are bi couple and really want to have experiences with other bi couples! We have learned by accident that there are other guys out there who want to have the oral/touching experience with other men, but didn't represent themselves that way. What is up with that? Why is it so much more acceptable for women to say they are bi than it is for men? Could it be because two women together are a common fantasy for a lot of men? Our idea of a perfect swinging experience is EVERYONE touching/sucking/etc. each other if they feel like it at the moment. Guess we're just a little frustrated that people can be so open and yet so closed at the same time. Has anyone else felt this way? If so, what did you do about it?