For those who haven't read my introduction post here is the situation. My wife and I are very new to the lifestyle. She had met a man that she has been with twice and we arranged a 3some for her while I watched. I know she enjoyed the few experiences she/we have had, she has told me several times that she did but she just doesn't feel right about it. Despite the fact that I encouraged her to be with the man and I was there cheering her on during the 3some. She doesn't feel she would like to try anything like it again because it felt like cheating. Obviously she was curious about it otherwise she never would have said yes. Anyway I would love to continue in the lifestyle but of course I would never put any pressure on her to do it again. I am just curious, what would be the best way to let her I know that it was the hottest thing I have ever seen and if she ever wanted to change her mind I am all for it. (Besides the obvious telling her) I don't want to sound like I am badgering her or being pushy. Should I just drop it and let it go and if she changes her mind she will let me know? If I do that maybe she won't think I am into and would be afraid to ask to try it again. Any advice or guidance would be appreciated.