You know - I sat back - after the furor was over and reread this post... I have to say, I hope it isn't deleted...Originally Posted by Unregistered
To be honest - this is a good point - worth discussion. Do we as married swingers - those quite blessed in the world with wonderful marriages with lots of communication and trust - foster bitterness and the kind of vile that we have witness from supershadow?
Don't get me wrong - this guy is a pathetic loser, plain and simple - and in general his conclusions are those of an undersexed moron and simply drip with desperation and self-entitlement. He rightly earned our ridicule as the boxer-stain that he is. I sincerely hope that while he was banging away at his keyboard his obviously "under-married" wife was banging away at the gardener... To be married to such an ass, she deserves a good little lovin'... God knows he likely couldn't give it to her...
But - with that said - I wonder what real, sincere singles feel about this particular question - it is a good one. Do swinging couples, in their celebration of what they have, earn the disdain of those single men whom we are so often looking for? Do we set ourselves up for bad experiences and a piss-poor group of men to choose from because the decent, intellegent, mature singles out there aren't willing to put up with what they perceive as "gloating"?
After all the fireworks have settled down - after supershadow has gone back under his rock as it appears he may have - this is a good, positive question to ponder...
What do you think?