Our first (non-introductory post).
We have read many (yes.. many) swingers ads that say "Must Use Condoms" yet when you look at their pics many of them show group intercourse (or intercourse with the non SO) using NO condoms, which begs the question: Are people honest about all of this? Hmmmmm....
Also, what about the ladies sharing toys with one another? I have NEVER seen any lady slap a rubber on a toy. Hmmmmm....
Then the ladies also play with one another (in our situation) and then they often times touch themselves with their fingers after having their finger in their lady partner. Hmmmm.....
No condom or saran wrap and oral sex = STD potential.
Oh, and a question. Have you ever heard of anyone contracting a STD through sharing lube? I mean your touching yourself or your partner and then the container and then.... well, you get the idea.
I don't think that most in this lifestyle can actually have "safe sex" due to the prevalence lady on lady intercourse that takes place in most encounters. That is unless you bring lots of saran wrap and are willing to use it and wash up a lot in addition to dicks being sucked with a condom in place. Just my opinion... not a doc or anything.