What we haven't done with friends.....

Ok so this one has my mind ticking over......

We have the usual collection of light bondage things.

The Hand Cuffs, wrist & ankle ones, wrist & thigh.

The spreader bar & the straps that go under the bed.

They've all led to some very good games, usually with MrsZ lightly constrained Spread Eagled & made the centre of my teasing & arousing until it's time for her reward.

She's usually exposed to a variety of touching, playing & toys, and the end result is always massive orgasms at the end.

We know most couples indulge in similar activities, but ours to date has only ever been just us two. The simple one on one.

I wonder about others experiences in mixing this type of play with another couple.

The numbers are a great change from 1 on 1 to, 3 on 1, if just the one lady had the hot spot at a given time.

Would like to hear comments from those couples who have played like this.

Would also like to here comments from others who haven't, and how they'd feel about being in a situation where they were restrained & the other 3 playmates had their way in giving her pleasure.

No real serious BDSM, extreme restraints or pain and un-pleasantries involved.

Looking forward to hearing thoughts & experiences.

Cheers.

We're not really into any from of BDSM ourselves, but, we have some good friends who do like to occasionally play with light restraints and I believe that is on the playlist for the next time we get together. For us anyway, it would take us being friends and having a lot of trust in someone to be willing to play that way. We aren't opposed to trying new things and expanding horizons, it's just a lot easier to do that when there is a lot of trust in place.

We've discussed it with another couple. Actually we discussed tying him up and the girls spanking him. I know the girls have spanked him without restraining him. My wife rather enjoys spanking a guy, so when she finds somebody that enjoys being spanked it's on.

That's as far as we've gotten. Although the whole bondage thing is very in vogue right now.

We have a couple that we are friends with that we see regularly who are also into bondage. They were brand new to swinging but during conversation they said the same thing as us as to what things got them talking about swinging. We admitted we have a bed that was custom made that has an attachable cross and the other wife was very interested. That was actually what started the ball rolling.

I set it up and she wanted to try it out. We didn't do anything to wild other than tie her to it. I think the 3 of us all you turns licking her and while one was doing that the other two were kissing and rubbing her. It was very hot. Another time my wife wanted a go in that position.

We recently took a weekend trip with them and my wife wanted to be tied up with the other wife. The other husband had a gift with photos and we did two scenes with the wives in two different positions. It was for pictures as well as active play so lots of orgasms were had between the two women. I took the back seat during the arrangements and made out with whichever wife wasn't being tied up at the moment.

We haven't gone too far in the realm of bondage with them but I know for a fact fron their pictures they've shared they like it rougher but we're still finding each other's comfort spots. We like it rougher and have things we haven't shared because the wife and I trust each other.

Basically, it's fun to do but we don't do it much with them. When we do we don't go as far with it had we do at home. We both talk about some of the things we do but my wife and I haven't shared everything.

Would also like to here comments from others who haven't, and how they'd feel about being in a situation where they were restrained & the other 3 playmates had their way in giving her pleasure.

We talk about this every so often, usually part of dirty talking when having sex. I think we'd like to try it but it does require a lot of trust in the other people involved and we haven't come across anyone who have come to that point yet.