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Forbidden fantasies that are hard for you to admit to?

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I have a fantasy that can be hard to admit to because the idea of it does make some people uncomfortable. Of course, I have/had fantasies about gang bangs and MFMs but those are so common place here in Swingers World! No, every time I find the time to read erotica, I gravitate towards the reluctance/non-consent section. I don't like the hard-core stuff though. Perhaps it's the control and dominance aspect that gets me. I do know that in no way do I want to be raped in reality though.

 

So, what fantasy (or fantasies) do you have that you don't want to admit to because you fear it will scare others?

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I have a fantasy that can be hard to admit to because the idea of it does make some people uncomfortable. Of course, I have/had fantasies about gang bangs and MFMs but those are so common place here in Swingers World! No, every time I find the time to read erotica, I gravitate towards the reluctance/non-consent section. I don't like the hard-core stuff though. Perhaps it's the control and dominance aspect that gets me. I do know that in no way do I want to be raped in reality though.

 

So, what fantasy (or fantasies) do you have that you don't want to admit to because you fear it will scare others?

 

Mrs Sun. From what I read that is the number one female fantasy. It seems strange doesn't it? Just shows that what we fantasize about is not necessarily what we would actually want.

 

I try to think about my fantasies a lot as I lay in bed at night to figure out what they are. The ones that I come up with that I could never to would be to get the hell beat and kicked out of my balls and keep being pulled back up for more and more. Probably the same as yours... A control and vulnerability issue. The second is to spank whip a woman's cunt till she comes over and over again.

 

The one that is doable enough is to have a woman, most likely NOT tied up but forcing her to keep her legs spread on her own, and use a vibrator on her clit until she comes over and over and over again until she can't stand it anymore and then continue doing it, keeping her in a constant state or orgasmic bliss for hours. I love the thought of having my cock head stimulated over and over after coming to the point of pain and beyond.

 

So based upon all this I guess I am screwed up. Just so we are clear... I could never intentionally hurt a woman... Even if she got pleasure out of it.

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I guess the bi-sexual part for me is a bit 'forbidden'. It's only really fun when it's part of a group anyway. Still kissing a guy I find hot, definitely like tasting forbidden fruit!!!

 

Cuddling, OMG. I'm a 6'4" bear that LOVES to cuddle. I still fantasize about the times we have cuddled with a group as much or if not more than the straight sex.

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I'm with you, Sun. I find myself turned on at the idea of that loss of control, of just sort of being caught up in a situation where you have no choice in the matter. Maybe not so much rape, for me, but more about being trapped, used, forced or blackmailed. Now would I actually get turned on in a situation like that in real life? HELL, NO! It's a hard fantasy to admit because - let's face it - men like to solve problems. Unfulfilled fantasy = must make it happen = happy woman. Thing is, a rape fantasy does NOT - I repeat, NOT - translate well into reality. With a fantasy, you have complete loss of control while maintaining a safe space. There is no guess work. In real life, no one can read your mind and you can't read theirs. That means, as much as you love and trust one another, there is room for such a dangerous fantasy to go awry. I have no interest in living it out. It's fine all locked up in my head where it belongs.

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I gravitate towards the reluctance/non-consent section as well. I loved the Anne Rice Books when Beauty was being trained to be a sex slave, that was for me. I’m drawn towards the dungeon porn, tied, forced and on public display. If I knew of a safe one here in Chicago, I would probably go to it....

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My second novel explores the concept of non-consent, or at least "reduced" consent. I'll turn my computer up a notch and write faster. :)

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I have to say non-consent is on the top of my list too but I tend to fantasize it in a much more hardcore scenario, like a BDSM scene in front of a room full of strangers.

 

Having dabbled in the BDSM world, I don't think a non-consent fantasy has to remain a fantasy. The key is to find a dominant you can trust and have a safe word, and then have fun and act out the roleplay.

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