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SouthBond

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About SouthBond

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    100 Posts Club
  • Birthday 01/01/1956

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    Deep River, Texas
  • Interests
    Motorcycles, fishing, hunting,
  • Occupation
    Investment Company Retired
  • Swinging Experience
    Twenty two years

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    Southbond
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Stopped going to clubs about 5 years ago

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  1. We highly recommend that you find other couples for playmates. You have awakened the feelings of first love, new love, sweetheart love, love of my life love. You have got to get over this novelty. If the other guy has a girl friend, he probably isn't in love with you. Swinging with other couples may balance out your feelings. Otherwise, you will destroy your marriage. Swinging is about sex.
  2. My wife and I were in the "lifestyle" for over 12 years before she went through menopause. She went through something much like your wife with no interest in sex and an increased interest in going to church. After 3 years of this pattern, her interest in sex returned. We are now as active as ever. While going to church, Episcopal, she developed a large network of friends. Now, we sometimes go to church, socialize with vanilla friends, and swing with our swinger friends. So, don't give up on her yet.
  3. We think that you need to forgive her and continue to think about swinging. Thirteen years is a long time to just flush. If you have been talking about swinging. Emailing people about swinging. Meeting people about swinging. She has had previous experiences. You have been building up an anticipation of having sex with another person. She was ready for action. She was hot to trot. Give her the benefit of doubt and give her another chance. You have been talking about her having sex with other people. She just got a little ahead you. If she continues to play games, dump her. We can assume that you are absolutely perfect. Can't we?
  4. Be careful. We sure would hate to read about you in the missing person section of the newspaper.
  5. How strange. It seems that you are playing some kind of game with the females interested in your guy friend. Your desire to attach yourself to your male friend is extremely disrespectful towards the other woman. You need to take care of your own relationship and leave his alone.
  6. How are you treating her? Are you taking her for granted? Are you are still treating her like the most important thing in your life. Do you listen to her? Do you flirt with her. Do you buy her flowers, cards, or gifts? Do you hold her and tell her that you love her? Do you still love each other? We got into swinging because we had been married a long time and had gotten sexually bored. We still loved each other and had no other issues other than sex. Swinging set us on fire. With us, seeing the other spouse with another person only made us more interested in each other. The whole experience took us to a higher level of sexual expression towards each other. To us, it seems a bit quick for you to be thinking about finding a new playmate. However, you stated that both of you have had threesomes. No wonder. You have already gotten a taste. You might as well jump in.
  7. Speaking for both of us, the experience lit our fire. Horny doesn't even describe the feeling. Our sex when we were first married was very mild compared to the "can't get enough" desires that erupted. Getting into bed with another couple and completely releasing every desire that we had hidden inside.
  8. No. But if you continue to cheat, she will find out. We all have things in our past that are better left in the past.
  9. There are all kinds of couples. The swinging community has a broad range of sexual interests. The responses to your posting are funny. It's like, oh we are all straight but just put bi on our profile. We don't care what you eat, suck or fuck. As long as you are an adult and not committing a crime, we feel that you do what you want to do.
  10. When we married, my wife had 34 C. After kids and time, she now has real 42 F. I prefer the larger breasts. You can push them together and add another dimension to the word intercourse. She is also very popular with the other guys.
  11. They are probably just two married people that have become bored and considering finding something new. Work relationships are risky. As long as everyone likes each other, everything is fine. If things go wrong, you might have career ending problems. The boss might be looking for a fun fling for himself, for his wife or for both of them. It seems that you got an invitation. What do you want to do? Can you handle dealing with the woman?
  12. We frequently play with two other couples at the same time. This allows for various combinations of men and women. The comment about not wanting to see your husband with another woman will most likely become a problem. This means that you will be playing with single men or married men that are cheating. Your husband is willing to allow you the thrill of a new partner and it would be fair to allow him the same thrill with a new woman. Jealousy is a sure killer of a good time. Give him the gift of experiencing the touch of another lady. Best of luck in your adventure.
  13. Our very best swing couples have been people that we have known for years. They were very compatible. Interested in renewing the passion. Had a feeling of being safe. Interested in keeping the activities private. Keep in mind that the first swing session is sometimes very stressful and can lead to some awkward moments. Don't be surprised if the men have a problem getting it up. That is why we recommend getting one of those little blue pills to make sure things get and stay nice and hard. The pill will not become addictive. Nothing is more frustrating for the guy than to be unable to hold up his end of the deal. We have always found that massage parties work great. Keep the light down very low. Don't talk. Just feel.
  14. Dump the guy. He doesn't love you. You are just something that he can trade for more women. Women being forced into swinging is some form of rape. Don't do it because he wants to do it. Do it because both of you want to do it.
  15. I like the part about having sex with older men. Old guys need love too. Your boyfriend/husband?, has a big imagination and apparently is running a bit overboard. We had a situation in our area where a couple started swinging and doing the usual swinger things. The husband seemed to be intent on doing everything that he had seen in movies and magazines. Their year long activities continued until he invited a couple of friends over with their dogs. The wife actually went along with the beast thing but later filed for divorce. It ended up in divorce court and was the talk of the town. Every old lady in the city was at the trial soaking up every detail. Maybe you can put the video on the internet and get rich. Swinging is a 50/50 deal. If you don't like what is going on, say so.
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