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BBVixen23

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About BBVixen23

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Central Jersey
  • Interests
    Music, Movies...the typical stuff...
  • Occupation
    Freelance Photographer & Digital Editor
  • Swinging Experience
    Newbies anticipating....
  1. This is why, to me, our first couple is so important, particularly for me. I want someone there who can reassure me if I have those uncomfortable moments. I don't want to have to stop....I want to be able to push through and want to have someone who can help me do so. I was able to fantasize about my husband and his potential female partner yesterday and have a very intense O.... Hopefully that's a good sign. Side Note~ You vets have no idea how much you are helping me. Information and communication is the key for me and I just want to say Thanks.
  2. We have been discussing this as well...he wants what's most comfortable for me and, well, I am not sure. On one hand I find the idea of 4 or more in the same room completely erotic, however, I'm not sure that him being so ...ahem...into his partner would go over well...being that it's going to be our first time. What do you more experienced folk think....particularly the women?
  3. Angel~ If you run a 28 day cycle and you started on the 4th, it looks to me like your most fertile days were the 18th-20th. Close call, but if I had to bet money on it, I'd bet against your being pregnant. Thank you for starting this thread though...Mr. Vixen & I have been so worried about catching an STD that I don't even think we thought about birth control. My factory is closed if you know what I mean so we havn't had to think about it in over a decade... So after I read this thread....I said to hubby...wow...what would we do if your condom broke? He said....."Ummmm thanks, I WAS excited...." Don't mean to make light of the conversation. It was just a funny moment between us. Seriously, if his condom broke, we'd face it like we have any other challenge in our marriage...with honesty and integrity. I can see why one would feel ok with swinging but not with abortion. Personally I'm a choice girl myself, but one could argue that pregnancy involves a life that isn't your own. In any event...Good Luck to you both ( I think I saw two posters who are now in this situation). Whatever happens, keeping open and honest about how you are feeling and considering all involved will be the best key.
  4. I would not "take one for the team" and I wouldn't expect him to either. In the same regard, I'd be highly irritated if I even suspected my "play partner" was taking one. I'm a BBW and Mr. Vixen is your average Italian hunk. It's amazing that some think because I am heavy, I'll take anyone... Um...I don't think so. There isn't anything wrong with not being attracted to someone. If you're not though, why would you waste not only your time, but theirs?
  5. I was in this situation 7 years ago. Mr. Vixen wanted to try swinging and, at the time, I was terribly offended. I told him flat out NO....I was raised so strictly and had been burned so badly by the opposite sex. I was in no frame of mind to undertstand the concept. However, I told him NO...flat out...I knew at that time I would not be able to see him with another partner. However, within the last few years, our relationship has really cemented itself. We are at a point now where I am confident enough in myself to know if he has sex with another woman, he's not looking for another life partner. Not only that, but I see now that he could have involved himself without asking me so long ago. Now, I'm just as excited about our "first time" as he is, although there eill be boundaries....set well in advance of our first "encounter". I hope you can both move on from this experience. More importantly, I hope you can repair the damage that was done to your heart before you and your husband ever considered swinging. One final note~ Kudos to our male counterparts for understanding that sex has little or nothing to do with love right from the beginning. It takes most of us women YEARS to figure that out!
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