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LFM2

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LFM2 last won the day on January 7 2015

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About LFM2

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    ~This space for rent~
  • Birthday 09/28/1984

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    South of the moon
  • Interests
    We love to camp, and anything that has to do with the outdoors. We're pretty laid back country people who enjoy the simple things in life. :)
  • Occupation
    We're bums
  • Swinging Experience
    since 2006
  • Anniversary
    Sept. 28th

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    Only been to RR

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  1. Just a funny about key parties... I was sitting at my mothers kitchen table with various siblings sitting around with me. My older brother looked at me and asked me if I knew some couples from up around where we used to live several years ago. Well, obviously I did know them. He proceeds to tell me that they have key parties every once in a while. My mother, without missing a beat and obviously missing her hearing aids says, "What? You're having a party?" "Ummm, not me mom, but I think (Name of my brother) is!"... She turns to look at him, with a grin on her face and expecting her invite... Without being too obvious, I wanted to ask him how he knows about these key parties and how often they have them. But he's staring me down, a look that says, "Of course you know them -- you're one of them!!" But, he just laughed. Yes, they do still have key parties in our neck of the woods. It still does happen. Kinda funny, isn't it? Dave and I laughed ourselves silly while driving home. Mi familia es loco.
  2. You took my answer. Usually, we have no idea what they do for a living. We really don't care. We're just out for sex.
  3. When our oldest daughter found out, it didn't really surprise her, but to this day, even after all the talks we've had, she still cannot wrap her head around what we do.
  4. I've always hated that term "Open Marriage". What a misnomer. It brings to mind all sorts of things, but "marriage" is not one of them; there is nothing "open" about it either. It's more like "we're married, but let's live like brother and sister and I'll do what I want, and you do what you want and we'll get along fine". I've never known of one open marriage that had a positive spin to it. The owners of the local swinging group decided to try an open marriage. They were swingers for a couple of decades until one of them wanted to change the rules. She has now moved to another state to be with her boyfriend and he is still living here. They are divorcing after 35 years of marriage. And then, maybe her definition is different than mine. What exactly is she proposing?
  5. I was hoping to look at other answers to figure out how to answer this. OP, could you clarify please? With the way the questions stands, I don't know what you really want.
  6. I love quickies! Obviously, the long drawn-out sessions are fun too, but there is something to be said for quickies!
  7. Hi Jack and WELCOME to our little corner of the world. It's great to have you as a member here at the Swingers Board! You sound like my husband and I when we first started. We were in our late forties, our youngest kids were in high school, and we led a "normal" (whatever that is) life. He had the same fantasy and when he brought it up, it was during sex. I admitted to being quite intrigued as well. We've been happily swinging ever since we discussed a lot of issues and ironed out the details. It's great that you can discuss fantasies with each other. Seems like we're close enough to talk about everything but sex and what we want. I give props to both of you for not holding back. Now, the challenge: Do it outside of the bedroom. Talk over the kitchen table, coffee (or other beverage) and face each other and still discuss what you want in your sex life. If the answers are still an enthusiastic agreement you'd both like to try, then you have some other homework cut out for you. If you're both still inclined to want this, I encourage you to both read the posts and threads in here and there is also the book, The Swinger Manual ( This board *is* full of real people. We don't condone cheating, but we do encourage fun sex. There are a lot of hurdles to jump, but with the right attitude, a lot of communication, honesty, respect and more communication, you could be on your way.
  8. As a lot of women have already responded, big cocks are nice and they're fun to play with. However, I'm also in the majority here that love to be surprised by them. I hate cock pictures in anyone's profile and I delete them immediately. I need to know who's attached to the cock though. I want to know the guy behind it. Intellectually. Get to know the gal you're wanting to play with first. Let her be excited after the clothes come off.
  9. My motor runs just looking at a cowboy. In chinks, boots, wranglers, and a hat... Spurs help, but isn't a requirement. Halloween or not... My cowboy is on the left.
  10. I echo two4you's sentiments as well. We've been in the same situations as he and it's never been a problem.
  11. Have you ever thought of bringing her here? Let her read some posts? See if she'd be interested? This is where I started our swinging journey. Dave was the one that brought it up to me... I had to investigate swinging before I was going to give consent to move on. We've enjoyed swinging for over 8 years now and we love it. Just a thought... you don't have to though... but this is a great way to research what you're unsure about.
  12. Absolutely! Sometimes that honesty is hard to take. Thanks for not taking offense, because none was meant.
  13. I have to agree with the others. Unfortunately, I think you've shot down all your chances of swinging. You've bombarded her with something she isn't prepared for. It was more than highly risky, but probably more deadly. If my husband had done this to me, it would have guaranteed that nothing would have ever happen. If you have time, I'd call it off and leave well enough alone. I understand the talk here can be stimulating. It's great to be among like minded people. With that said, I'm going to be brutally honest with you -- I know you say you're highly sexed, but that's also what a teenaged boy, who can't control his libido, would say. If you can't discuss swinging with your wife, it's going to be hard to discuss anything with her. Why not just sit down and talk with her about your swinging experience; broaching the subject that way instead of bombarding her with a couple.
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