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We were both virgins when we married. We are now in our 50's and considering expanding our partners. So to directly answer your question, my wife has never had another partner. Q (Male half)

I haven't voted yet, but we have talked about it off and on for 3-4 years. I think it might happen someday, but we might be in the over 5 year group when it does! LOL

That is great! I am hoping our first time experience goes as well as yours. Q

Brasso, Thanks for your response. I don't have anybody local to ask. We have been on since 2006, but following the advice of many here, I broached the subject to my wife in 2006 and have let conversations appear when they did. It now appears that she is getting interested/willing and so I am trying to move to the next step of looking for possible couples to play... hence the current interest. Local Maryland/Pa input would be appreciated.

Has anyone tried altplayground? They don't have a free sign-up which can be good (reduces the number who aren't serious) and it can be bad (can't find out how many from our area are on). In any case we are looking for a good site for Maryland/Pennsylvania contacts.

I like to play with the other guy some, but I am not very interested in him playing with me. A bit odd, perhaps, but as it has been said, to each his own. If we were all the same, life would be really dull.

I guess I am old fashioned, but I don't like anything other than one piercing in each ear.

We have been discussing it for 2-3 years. She is open to discuss it, but not yet any where near ready to try it. We have been married for 31 years and I have found that if she will discuss it, there is a good possibility that she will eventually try it. I am hoping for the best.... Q

Applevenus, I am in the same boat at the moment as you, but my wife has changed a lot of the course of our 30 years together and I remain hopeful that some day, she might just let me bring another guy home for her! Q

Totally new to swinging, but I (male half) have been here for awhile, reading and passing interesting threads on to my wife. She reads them and we talk about them, but so far, that is as far as it goes. If/when we are both ready, we'll jump in! Q

I never showed any interest, but my wife tried it and I really like it. Sometimes you just have to be open to things, you never know what you might like!

I actually like to keep it all shaved, but my wife likes it hairy, so now I just keep it trimmed.

My wife gives a great BJ, and when she wants to make me cum, I am putty in her hands. There have been a few, very rare occasions in the past 29 years that I couldn't cum when she wanted me to; I either had too much to drink or I just couldn't relax and enjoy it.

I had been shaving on a regular basis when my wife told me that she prefers it furry. I kind of liked shaved, but when the boss speaks, I listen. It is now furry.