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  1. We had a lot of discussin about our price and started out at $40. It's on onpremise club, lots of room very nice, but we didn't see a reason in charging what was beyond our costs including upgrades. Because increases in food and heating costs, we'll be doing $50 next year.
  2. We've been staying afloat at 40 dollars but once we open the showers in january we'll probably have to raise it to at least 50 to cover the extra water charges and porter. We are an onpremise club. We will probably charge 30 dollars for our meet and greets once we start them in february.
  3. My take Humans by our biology are not monogomous animals. Over time we've developed negative feelings such as jealousy. The bond between my wife and I is spiritual and it is silly for us to go against our natural behavior and likes because a few religions developed .00001 of the lifetime of man ago says to.
  4. Among our friends there are not a lot of women who knowingly want to play with bi males. So its not just me and my not being comfortable around them. We invite straight and bi females and straight males. The females that go to our parties who play with men enjoy playing with me have stricly straight male behavior. We just think that there is a portion of the lifestyle for this type of behavior and it is not mainstream swinging.
  5. Thanks for the advice, the wording is definately the approach I'll take. I want to be as honest as possible with them and not come off like an a-hole or homophobic and this is a good solution.
  6. The couples profile states that he is a straight male. We met them at a party for straight males. They are lying on their profile essentially. Both couples said that they lied to them as well. One described a story where they were playing with the couple and as the two women went down on the male half the bisexual guy bended down and asked if they could put it in his mouth as well. Y0ou're absolutely write its a hard situation and the biggest thing is that it pretty much is just hersay, though from a reliable source. With the first two couples the evidence was pretty obvious. The one guy is still calling and messaging us with curse words because we disvinted them. The other couple conceded that they told us both was straight but just recently decided that the male half wanted to explore his bisexuality. I hate calling someone a liar and that's what this is pretty much going to be.
  7. Hi, we hated at first that all the clubs in Detroit have to have a dance floor and very loud music. For us this is not a conducent environment for swinging, and we ended up finding out that a few couples we play with on a regular basis felt the same way. They felt too much like night clubs (even the on premise places). Not only that they attracted too many non-swingers and borderline swingers whom used the music and dancing as a distraction . While one mate was taking part in the social activities the other was off being a jerk. We also found that there was no real way to talk and get to know a couple over the music. Our solution at first was to do house parties, but we got a great opportunity when the local on premise owner allowed us to throw our house parties at his venue every couple of months. It takes the better part of the day, but we convert the dance floor into a giant bed and one of other socializing areas into a small dungeon. With a little planning we converted the nightclub like swing club into a swing lounge club, which suits our tastes and the majority of our friends a bit better. It suits our tastes fine, though we have run into a few couples who have told us that they just do not like to go to swing clubs without a dance floor. We've met many though he liked the idea as it really provides an intimate atmosphere to talk and get to know a couple. There's very sensual music playing the background and lots of comfortable sitting areas. Our next steps is to convert an area into a movie room with couches and love seats.
  8. What is the best way to go to uninvite a couple to your party? Over the last weekWe have found myself in the position of having to uninvite 3 couples to the party. One of which We received feed back on that they were unruly in the past. That was the easy call to make as his pushiness was very evident in emails and messages. However, the last couple we are trying to figure out the best "PC" way to do it. We have found out from two different couples whom we've known for a long time that the male is bi. A lot of our guests, myself included, or not comfortable with bisexual males at straight male/couple parties. We've met this couple once and they seemed like really cool people and at our last party, though they did not play (it was a meet and greet), they seemed like pretty good guests. It was not until the next morning that two of the couples told us about seperate incidents involving the couple. One of which the male attempted to suck another males cock while the couples were playing. The day after our party, they sent a very warm email telling us how much fun they had and how they couldn't wait for our club party in two weeks. The other two couples I found it so easy because it was so obvious and they truly offended me (the second couple perpetrated to us when we met them that the male was straight, but after meeting them we went home and checked out their profile .. which was changed.. where he professed how he wanted to go down a male). In any case the first two were real easy to disinvite but the last one I am finding it difficult to say a good PC way.
  9. Thanks, we really appreciate the advice. The chocolate fountain sounds great. I think we just hit that initial feeling of "oh my god are we really going to do it" and got really overwhelmed for nothing probably. The dance floor was one of the down things about the parties in the past and was a reason for the bad element. It got to a point where a lot of non-swapping lifestylers would come, do lots of hustles, wait for the swappers to start and then gawk, ooh and ah. I'm hoping that is not too missed. But like you said, i'm sure that's something we could adjust on the fly if we wanted
  10. To answer some of the questions - We've never rented this club before, as a matter of fact, no one has. The club closed to expulge a bad element. - All the guests are invite only. All couples we've played with before and that enjoy playing. - The club's design is that there's a main sitting/conversation area surrounding the dancefloor. We plan on putting up sheer drapes around the dance floor/orgy area as a seperation between the sitting area and the larger play area - appetizers- we're not really sure right now. We've settled on serving little angel food cake bites with various sweet sauces they can pour over it. At our parties we only have fresh fruit, so we're alittle up in the air trying to find a light food we can make for it.
  11. ONe of the best "swinger games " we've played was strippopoly. I swear this game was built for swinging. Lots of player vs player interaction.
  12. We've been in the lifestyle for five years and have thrown quite a few house parties in our small apartment. Our house parties usually had 10 couples and two large play rooms. The thing we like about house party is that our guests are all seasoned swingers whom love to play and we aren't regulated to playing games and dancing all night. We remodeled our place and haven't thrown a party in a year and after the urging of our friends are currently planning a party at a local on premise club. We have a ton of friends who are rsvp'n and we're getting a bit overwhelmed. The club normally has 18 small room type play areas that normally fit 2 or 3 couples. How can we make it have a house party swinging f To make for larger play areas, we're hanging sheer curtains around the dancefloor and placing beds there. We've also turned another area into a large dungeon room. One of the cool things about our home is that one of the rooms had a projector with wall to wall porn playing on it. We think we're crosing our ts but theres still that dread feeling of overwhelming. We're expecting 30 couples. What type of appetizers should we serve? We like to normally put out a couple of fruit plates but that may not be enough. We sometimes play games but that doesnot seem like it will work on a large scale? When we normally go to this club the dance floor is one of the perks, are we doing the right thing by eliminating it for a larger play space. What else can we do to make it more homey
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