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Karenandtom4you

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About Karenandtom4you

  • Rank
    Contributor
  • Birthday 08/05/1954

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Albuquerque
  • Swinging Experience
    7 years
  1. I have never been disappointed by size-if I just wanted size-I have a vibrator that does nicely-and no arguments from it. What matters is the person of any size. Is he caring? Does he indeed know what foreplay means-does he give me oral pleasure. Does he want to be a caring partner to me. Does he know how to use the size he has-whether small, medium or large? So-size means very little-what matters is the person! Give me a caring partner anytime to one that is uncaring and of great size. It is not what is between someone's legs that makes him a great partner-but what is between his ears-his mind-and how he comes across to me as a caring person and wanting to give me pleasure - as I will try to give him pleasure back.
  2. Don't know how "senior" we are -we are both about age 50. Age ultimately is in the eye of the beholder-at least in the Lifestyle it seems. Many people will not contact us because we are "old." We have no problem meeting couples of any age. We find that personality is what is important-do we click personality wise or not. There seems to be an age consciousness in this country in all parts of life-such should not be the case, but that is the reality we see-at least as how we view it. Comments welcome.
  3. We have no schedule in our swinging. A lot depends on our schedule of life-like job, family, other obligations. Swinging for us is not on a schedule-like we swing Saturdays at a club-and then don't swing again till the next club time. Swinging depends on the Couples we meet-and how that goes-we like to get to know them-and they us-and when the swinging happens-the sex is tremendous. So-no schedule for us-when it happens-it happens-and Wow is it fun!
  4. Yes-Sex is not about keeping score but on having fun! It would be great if we all came together-or close to that-but sometimes that does not happen. I do not have to have an orgasm to have great sex. My husband doesn't either. Great sex can happen without the cumming! Great sex can happen with it too!
  5. Both my husband and I had a few experiences before marriage. but in the 60's and early 70's just having sex for the fun of it -was less common than today. Swinging is not being promiscuous - as I see it. It is about communication, and giving yourself permission to be who you are and enjoying your sexuality with others. We first had to un-play many of the tapes in our head-like "what would mom think" or "what would or religion think" We finally decided that what we think and do is most important-and we have found swinging a great way to enjoy our sexuality with others-and meet some very nice people in the process.
  6. As much as we both enjoy oral sex!-love it--there is nothing to compare to intercourse! Wow-can't get more personal or intimate than that! Just love it! Personal and very up close. I like to face my partner-watch his expression as he watches mine-as we pleasure each other. Intercourse Rocks! Oral is a very close second!
  7. I have nice breasts - my husband has said that is one, maybe 2 things that initially attracted him to me. Married about 30 years now - so guess there was more! Couples we have met seem to enjoy my full breasts as well. So for me breasts are my main attraction - although I have others!
  8. We have been nudists for more than 20 years-so it has been a part of our life. We visit nudist resorts in this country and others. The organization AANR promotes such a healthful attitude toward nudism. Other countries have a Healthier view of nudity than much of the US. There is less a sexual connotation to it than here. At the nude resorts we have visited -people of all ages-including families with children are present. At home-we do not usually go nude-it is more because of the cost of heating our home. We do have a hot tub and go nude there all the time. -so Nudism has been part of much of our adult lives-and still is.
  9. We have never strayed from each other without the other's knowledge and consent. For us-with the Lifestyle-there is no need to cheat. We totally love each other -the Lifestyle has helped us be honest with our feelings toward each other as well as those we meet. -Karen
  10. Very happily married about 30 years for us. We have had our ups and downs-but still together-and very much in love!
  11. I -Karen am shaved smooth. Just love the feel of smooth and so do my partners.
  12. We use Kimono Ultra-Thin-feels like having no condom on at all. It is lubricated-slightly.
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