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  1. When playboy model and actress Carmen Electra stopped by on the Howard Stern show she wasn't expecting to be riding a sex toy by the end of the interview. But sometimes on Stern, that's just what happens.
  2. Me being a sexually straight male to say the least since starting this thread I've been startled at these responses. None of my past or current girlfriends ever expressed the desire to see men in any way shape or form engaged in sex with other men. Maybe just because the notion never came up, so until now I'd no idea women had interest in seeing men with other men. And now that I've been enlightened with your statement you've certainly snagged my interest. So because of it I'm wondering if you'd care to share your really hot fantasy with us here on the swingers board? I for one would like to see what it is about man on man sex that would turn a woman on so much. Anyway thanks whether you do or don’t
  3. Well Hell closure for us all at last, though I have to say for such a dire beginning it turned out rather anticlimactic. But I guess actually that's good since it didn't wind up with divorce or anything.
  4. Originally Posted by Merric So tomorrow if your husband asked you to stop seeing this other guy you’d do it? Originally Posted by mfmswing Yes I would, but as I said he does enjoy it as much as I do. Originally Posted by mfmswing in reply to sereneiders It’s not that we are poly, he’s my longtime regular playmate. We just use the term “boyfriend” to denote that status in our relationship. That’s not to say that I don’t have some type of feelings for this other man, but when it comes down to it, I only love my husband. The only significance is that we like the color contrast of the skin tones, nothing more. You are reading into things far too much. As I said before, we are not into the cuckold lifestyle whatsoever. The only reason we even kept playing with this man we call my BF is that we know him, trust him and enjoy spending time with him on a social level as well as our sex play. My husband is just as free to play with other women as I am with other men, in fact he often brings home women for us to have fmf fun with as well. As far as I understand, this would not be allowed in a Cuckold situation. Reply to janaandjames Posted by mfmswing There may be some degree of humiliation for your hubby in your arrangement, however; in ours there is not. I have never said or even feel that the sex is better with my boyfriend, it is just something we do to add spice. It is the same thing when he brings home another lady, I don’t have an element of humiliation nor does he feel that the sex is better with his lady friend. To mfmswing from Merric From your original description my first perception of your triad lifestyle was of you and your BF going out, dining, dancing, and of course having sex while all the time laughing at your husband back home who was alone holding his dick while you and your BF were discussing making him ready for a cock cage. However with all this new information you’ve thankfully provided I can see how wrong I was and that indeed your primary relationship does take precedence and that all things are actually equal as shown in those emboldened keys you’ve provided us above. So thanks much for the enlightenment and filling in the blanks. For me you’ve certainly answered my question completely and agreeably. So again thanks mfmswing and I wish you all the very best.
  5. I definitely have to agree a hundred percent with your observations on this sereneiders. Certainly one of the reasons I asked my so bluntly put original question on this thread.
  6. Actually spectraschain that’s very presumptuous of you because I’m very well aware of what MFM entails and enjoy it a lot. But mfmswing’s relationship far exceeds just a man and his SO getting together on occasion with another guy for a session of fun. Then too since the question I posted was directed at mfmswing and not you anyway I find your opinion superficial and superfluous While to mfmswing’s post it had little to do with MFM anyway and as evidenced by the above quote more to do with the wife’s outside “boy friend” relationship.” And that’s the part I was putting into question was if her husband did grow unhappy with her many times away from him and he requested she quit seeing the “boyfriend” whether she would or not. So no I don't actually see anything at all wrong with that question. After all in any swinger relationship isn't it the primary one that must come first or did this change somewhere along the way to take a backseat to the secondary one?
  7. From Netscape love: Wife Does Others My wife goes dancing on the weekend at one of our local clubs. She picks guys up on the dance floor. Before the night ends, she will give them oral sex before coming home. At first, I didn’t like it, but it’s grown on me. Last weekend, she brought a guy home and wanted me to watch. Before he was done, she called me over and told me to do it with her. She then told me to do it while she watched, and I did. On Monday night, she told me that it really turned her on and she wants to watch me do it more. She said her fantasy is to have sex while watching me have oral sex with a guy. -Mel, 30 I’ve found many other similar letters on Netscape love concerning women wanting to see their man have sex of some kind with another man. Now that men in the Vanilla and Swinger world for the most part share the fantasy/reality of actively participating in or seeing their women or any woman/women having sex with other woman/women is a fact pretty much goes without saying. So my question is do women here on the Swingers Board share this fantasy of seeing their men have sex with other men? Seems likely this question has been broached here but I’ve not been able to find it.
  8. I shave. But when I can afford it will get my anal area, perineum, (area between anal area and testicles) my testicles and underside, base of my penis where there’s a little hair laser treated so the hair is permanently removed. I’ll still leave the hair over my pelvic bone and thin line of hair from there to my navel because I enjoy shaving and trimming it in artistic ways the ladies I’ve slept with so far all seem to find enjoyable. Plus regardless of bathing regularly just like a shaved labia and Mons Venris on a woman looks cleaner and more attractive to us men, so I’ve found does a well groomed pubic area on a man look more attractive to a woman. So why laser it? Because like I’ve discovered, and many of the women here have indicated they don’t like dealing with hairs in their mouths any more than men do. While also it permanently eliminates such things as stubble that as the women here also have indicated can be a real irritant to their more sensitive areas.
  9. Wow, Sweet_Candy that’s certainly a far cry from the dictionary definition of “cuckold.” Can I ask where you got it because it sounds worth looking into. Though strictly speaking for myself, rather than sitting on the sidelines as a spectator or cheerleader, I’m more for actively being involved and playing the sport Oh and We-R-2-Naughty it looks like you’re solving your own problem quite nicely by keeping the communication with ”Chuck” open and going so I’ve a feeling everything will work fine out for you in the end. Just remember because of the many reasons brought up in this thread it’s also wise to be upfront with the other men you and “Chuck” invite into your lives.
  10. Sounds like you had a lot of fun. Darn it everyone's having fun but me. lol
  11. Wow I can see your point SweetTXCouple and am sorry things turned out so badly. But I don't really think you can judge everyone in the lifestyle like that. Even despite their troubles with their current lifestyle couple the Vans agree they both really, really like the couple as friends and playmates. So certainly there’s a couple out there you and your husband can both get along with. But I do suggest you overcome the symbolism of kissing. Even being a man I know at first I felt the same way you did. But then came to realize that’s all it is, a symbol. While the real love for you it signifies actually remains in the heart of your husband and not on his lips. And then realistically when approaching the act of sex whether it’s with you or someone else, your husband has to start somewhere with them doesn’t he? And yes the only real way to go about it is beginning with a kiss. And with time like I did, as you become more accustomed and understand that it’s just sex and not love your engaging in with these other couples I’m sure you’ll come to find it erotic seeing your husband kissing another woman. Knowing all along as you watch that the love he holds for you is locked safely in his heart, and again not his lips. While from I’ve read from you so far he understands this, and so no doubt will find it equally exciting watching you kiss the man you’re with. In any case I wish you and yours the best of luck and well wishes.
  12. BorisNatasha you sound like wonderful and caring people. I sincerely hope all swingers who read your post and who know they’re infected with something and prior remained silent will now follow your lead in all lifestyle practices. *Hugs you both.” Wish I could do more for you but you’re doing all you can on your own. I wish you the best.
  13. So tomorrow if your husband asked you to stop seeing this other guy you’d do it? ********************************************************
  14. crazy4u Well my suggestion since you’ve indicated it’s you and your SO plus another couple, is at dinner sit next to each other’s SO’s instead of your own. Keep the talk light hearted and get to know the person you’re considering spending the evening intimately with. With a good dinner wine, and no I’m not suggesting drunkenness or overt intoxication here, but just something that’ll go good with the meal and make the environment more comfortable. By the time the meals over and you’re moving in the living room, you might find without really noticing or thinking about it the SO hostess has taken your arm then find yourself sitting with her on the couch continuing your chat. Likewise following you in your SO will probably likewise be occupied either on a couch, floor cushions whatever with chatting to the host. Then before you know it . . . Ah but what do I know?
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