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Those who are bisexual - what was your first sign?
rammur replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Bisexual Swingers
I had a friend touch me at a sleep over in Jr. High, then a couple light encounters in college. Then after raising 3 kids and 30 years of marriage, my neighbor lady in Arizona our winter home, slowly seduced me over a few weeks, now we are lovers, as both of our husbands travel a lot for work. They both enjoy watching so it fits for all of us. -
How many couples do you like to get together at a time?
rammur replied to sahajacpl's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
We love house parties, mingling, flirting, hubby likes watching, and I like girl/girl so we are well suited for each other. We generally end up with one couple girls playing and guys helping out, of course they get their oral delights as we are playing, but I like girl groups 3-4 on a bed or floor or pool or hot tub or boat or beach. Ok I just like lots of girls, who cares where!! -
You are looking for the unicorn like the rest of us Bi girls here. I think it would be a blast, most of our swinging is hubby watching me girl/girl play. Girl groups are my favorite, but you will have to be open to allowing the male half to watch, maybe even touch a bit, but set your rules and come looking, we are out there!!
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Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?
rammur replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Swingers Talk
we are experienced yet, do not do full swap? go to a party or club, meet some people and just mingle, look around as a couple, if you are approached let them know you are newbies, if you decide to go further have a safe word!! If you use it you BOTH leave!! we use the phrase " I think I need a Drink" if I say or she does, we leave and head to the bar or public area. I am Bi and most of our experience is me girl girl with him just enjoying the show, we now have some good friends we travel with and flirt with. full swap will happen, we are just not going to rush it!! good luck and have fun!! Oh and the last person of the evening you have sex with is your mate!! It must be the grand event of the evening!! -
Those who are bisexual - what was your first sign?
rammur replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Bisexual Swingers
I remember at a sleepover at a friends house about age 12, waking up to her hands in my panties. I was surprised to say the least, but I allowed her to continue. I continued to allow her the opportunity at every sleepover. Even with other girls at the sleepover she would always end up sleeping next to me. We never really talked about it. One time on a high school trip we roomed together and went further than I had ever went with a boy. Well then came college and marriage and three kids. Now as empty-nesters going south for the winter I met a neighbor lady who through a few months of laying around the pool and sunbathing together, she one day kissed me on the lips. That was it, it kissing is so intimate it put me over the edge. We now are playmates while the men watch, we have not done the full swing yet, but I feel it is coming!! -
Those who are bisexual - what was your first sign?
rammur replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Bisexual Swingers
Hi, we have been gone for some time, just getting back into this. I had stayed at a friend's house when I was about 12, woke up during the night with her hands inside my PJ's. I did not stop her or roll over. She kept touching me every time we slept together, we never talked about it, or acted on it any further I just remember I liked the feeling. Well I got married, had kids, and just lately at our winter home is Arizona, got hit on by our neighbor lady. I am often there alone, hubby has to be back home for work. This winter was the Bi winter of my life, even a threesome, so even after a 40 year wait, I am Bi and enjoying it!! -
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rammur replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
For her, strap on butterfly!! Or maybe my Jackrabbit. For Him, Butt Plugs do the trick!!- 31 replies
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Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?
rammur replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Swingers Talk
We are coming in totally new, we tried meet a single gal a few years ago, had a bad experience in a bar picking her up. We are going to Desire Cancun this year to explore and get used to being nude, and hopefully visit with some couples. i am sure we will start out with some petting and soft swap. The curiosity has been fun, we both think it is time for the next step or maybe even a leap!!! -
Fair to turn them down because his dick is so small?
rammur replied to twoplayers's topic in Swingers Talk
Hey, as a couple, you write the rules, right? If your husband was totally into it would you have settled for oral. The guy must be great at something if he is that small!! Anyway it was I hope a couple decision, I once allowed my husband to have another woman, the man and I just didn't hit it off, we agreed to stand by and play with our mates as they had the main event, fun was had by all!!