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Bonnie&Clyde

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About Bonnie&Clyde

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    Contributor

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    new york
  • Interests
    equestrian, tennis, sailing, opera, theater, films, wine tasting, and much more!!
  • Swinging Experience
    Curious/very little/ only 2 months
  1. this lyfestyle is the reason why I GOT INTO SHAPE. i thought "i want to play with the beautiful people" and those are the first ones who write "be young and fit only" and i was not going to settle for less than i wanted. i am not attracted to people that are poorly groomed or overweight, but that is just me, plenty of people like meat!!! there is plenty for everyone but i advise you that if your issue with body image is causing you to stress, perhaps you should change it FOR YOURSELF... work out and eat better and you will see what a difference it makes in your confidence and how you see others. this way of life puts pressures on women that most men dont have (looking good because we want to look good not just for the men but for the women too) and i think the best way to deal with it is being good to yourself... i dont know if i am able to explain myself.. if something about yourself bothers you, then change it! hope this helps
  2. you did good and i am glad your wife told her off... i probably would have taken it a bit further and drag her ass on the floor by the hair LOL
  3. thank you all for the reply yes this is something that i find fascinating, that i think about it and it drives me wild and then i am actually doing it, aka living my fantasy and my body really doesnt respond the way i would have hoped. i think this is something that only time and patience can manage (and maybe some female viagra!) LOL LOL but is a form of consolation to know i am not alone...
  4. thank you guys for the reply is good to know that what is happening to us is not completely crazy, i mean even if the day after my husband and i were so excited we couldnt even keep our hands off each other, the feelings during playing were different. i think that it will change in time as we get more experience. truth be told we never talked before with the people we played, we met at a party (not play party) and talked for about 3 hours before going home with us, so is not like a "friendship had been established" we are looking forward to move on with this and eventually make it feel as natural as we dream of
  5. my husband and i had our first swinging experience a week ago. it went so-so but we will do it again while playing i noticed several things: - the men i was playing with (2) were not entirely excited and neither was my husband... i mean they were all happy to kiss, touch, suck but their (sorry to be so explicit) dicks were only half hard. now i realized that i was nowhere near as excited as i thought i would be (and the women that i played with werent all together wet and wild if you catch my drift. my question would be, is this normal atr first to feel a bit disconnected when there are so many people around? do people usually react like that (all the couples were relatively new at this) until they get comfortable with the people they play with? i am just curious, i had a great time and the other couples told us that they also did and want to do it again thanks for your comments
  6. i agree. man you have a lot nerve to come over here with this "master plan of yours" SHAME ON YOU! your wife at least gave it a try, you know how many wouldnt? why cant you find a solution that involves pleasure for you both?... the fact that you now see "cheating on her" as your only way to get your cake and eat it too shows what kind of man you are, i hope she leaves you.
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